I've got a problem, I dont have any problems attracting women and can get a girl no problems at all. I'm pretty average looking, my problem is that I've not always been great at attracting women and I met a woman at work who I became friends with over the years, but over the years I've really fallen for her bad. The problem is she sees me as a friend is there any advice for retreiving this situation and getting her to see me as boyfriend material. I should mention I've never made a move simply because she does often refer to me as a friend. Also I have started to use all my pulling techniques on he ie being cocky, funny, not showing much interest and even thought she rolls round laughing I cant really say ive seen any difference in how she is with me other than we are probably better friends! I'm gonna stop banging on now but any advice would be appreciated I'm starting to go off other women! Everyone I've spoken to about it has told me to consider her the one that got away but surely theres some hope!
Yes, Stop acting cocky and like you don't pay attention. Let out *nice* signals, maybe one day buy her flowers or something and ask her on a date.
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I was in the same situation once. Eventually we started dating.
I'm naturally cocky, so that's not a problem. She always found me hilarious so that wasn't a problem either. I guess it started off as a game. I thought to myself, "I wonder if I can get this girl to fall for me". The rest of the women in my office were married. So, I asked her to "help me" pick out some clothes for me. I told her that, being a guy and not a metrosexual, I lacked fashion sense and I needed someone to come with me shopping. (She loves to shop) To repay her, I told her I would take her out to eat at a local Italian restaurant. (She loves Italian food). It was a hard for her to turn down in the first place. At one point, I came out of the dressing room and when she saw me all dressed up in the clothes she picked out she blurted out, "Damn." in a somewhat sexual tone. Great time to start tickling her and joke around about how she thought I was so sexy. Then I started dragging her to the dressing room and talking about how she'd be in big trouble if she stepped in there with me. I stopped before we got to the dressing room and I left her giggling while I went back in to change again.
Since you've known her a while, you probably know what she likes. Use that knowledge to your advantage. Make it look like you need her help and when you're out together try to evolve it into something romantic.
I didn't kiss her until the 3rd date because of the whole working together thing. shrugs We became bf/gf then I broke up with her 2 months later. It was a good break up and we continued to have sex for a year. Things don't turn out so well unless both parties can approach the situation responsibly. Oh, and to this day none of our co-workers knew that we were having sex.