ok im 15 nearing 16, and not getting any is getting rough. ive had gf this year its just none of them have wanted to do anything. what do you guys do or how do you get some when you need it? i cant go to a party yet and some wasted chick want to suck me since they dont feel old enough for that
Desperate for sex
Unfortunately there's no real advice I can give u for this. Obviously due to age and maturity, the girls u are dating don't feel they're ready for sex. I suggest u become very good at beating off in the mean time. Maybe you'll find a new girlfriend soon, and maybe she'll want sex and u can have a fun time, but until then all u have is ur hand...and believe me in hard times it can be a guys best friend. As for getting a girl to sleep with me, I have a girlfriend so thats where I get it, if I didnt...I'd probably be in the same boat as u.
Look for a hooker.. ? No im just kidding! dont do that
I used to think i was like you, i remember i wanted to fool around with someone so bad.. that i "needed" it because i was soooo horny.. well i waited.. went through my share of guys and decided that fooling around wasnt as good as finding someone to be with who would honestly care about me. and now that i have.. fooling around isnt that important.. youre young.. hold off a bit.. because when youre older maybe you'll regret being so young and wanting to fool around with someone so bad... Trust me hold off a bit.. the hand comes in handy
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
I can help you Link (Warning Graphic) Thats what fooling around can cause.. Dosn't look so good. One thing that keeps me in line: I dont want to be a father at 16. Sorry, It isn't my thing. So just hold off. If you find someone you love, it will be more special then if you just did a 'drunk chick at a party' (Which is VERY wrong)
i know, i wouldnt just go do some wasted chick, cause thats fucked up, im saying they wont like hop on me or anything and just want to go to town.
look its like they said just jack off till then and whenever the urge is strong think about something you enjoy that has nothing to do with sex for me its fighting
Are you a virgin? I can understand someone who has had sex having withdrawls but I can't imagine anybody saying it's rough not getting any when they have never got any. What are you comparing it to? It sounds to me like you have some peer pressure going on there. I have some news for you, most girls your age are not going to do it just for the hell of it (at least, not when I was your age; maybe things have changed). When I was 15/16, me and my buddy were always talking about how we needed to get laid and carried condoms in our wallets, but it never happened until way later (I can't vouch for him though).
I lost my virginity at 26, and of course, I would have liked it to be sooner (I could have lost it ten years earlier, but the situation would have been too weird for me to go through with it), but I wasn't suffering because of it. When it finally happened, it was the most awesome thing in the world.
I'd be afraid to have a wasted chick suck me. She might be apt to throw up on you or maybe chomp down hard, both of which I find rather unappealing. Plus, if she's wasted and you do that, she might accuse you of raping her since she wasn't exactly coherent. You really don't want that.
i know what you are going through im 20 i am not with anyone. when im with a frind of mine nad he brings his gf they act very differtnly alwys giggling and when i see that it is not easy to see it, it can and would really lower my mood for the rest of the day. i dont know what it is like to feel the capanionship but it may happon someday if not then ill just have to deal with it when the time comes.
question for those who didnt have sex but was with a gf/bf.
do you feel anything when you how can i say this without making a more of an ass of myself then i all ready have when you are together in bead throughout the night in each otehr arms; the only term that i know of is 'spooning' many more i just dont know them but how does it feel both physicall and pasycoligically? I know this sounds odd but please say anyone who reads this.
you can read more on the short storie i posted (please help me, i think im lossing it on teen life and health)
I think this whole virgin crap is crap. When it happens it happens. I lost mine quite late too (well 20, i consider that late anyway) but always told people i lost it before. It's all pier pressure.
True friends stab you in the front.
i dont think anything of the word. ill tell someone im a virgin, i did today im not ashamed. and i wont be ashamed when i loose it unless its to a horrible person...
In my own experience, and in my close friends, if you are "desperate for sex" then you're not mentally ready to be having it. Wait 'til it's a choice, not a need, and you'll be much happier with the whole thing.
LIFE'S GOOD, SO KEEP ON SUCKIN'...MEOW!
interesting...i have gotten a lot less wanting and all and just worrying about other things, its mainly when i get bored i just think about it and all. but its starting to become a choice i think about 2 girls want me in bed, one who i would never do and one who is a possibility but im not rushing anyhting.
If nothing, then there's always oral - but I wonder if oral is considered "sex?" I don't, but there are some that do, so...
shrugs Really, at the cheesey bulletin boards and commercials say, sex is worth the wait - it really is. Then again, I'm still a virgin, so...
Take it for what it's worth...
by sex i meant bj or what not. ive gotten a lot less desperate and taken your guys advice some more, and i dont mind wating a little longer. i do have a chance with a girl who i wouldnt mind doing it with, and im not sure if ill take it, mabe ill just take oral from her and give her some...
like i really want too and all, but i feel there is something weird about it, or i want to wait for a long term relationship i think is what i want, although this is a real good friend.
Animalchin, my suggestion to you is to wait to have sex when you've found someone you really care about or love (note, lust is no where near love...you'll know love when you feel it). Its what I did. I am 26, and I had sex for the first (and only time) about two months ago. My original plan was to wait until I was married but then I discovered hormones and decided that I wouldn't be able to and I would wait until I found someone I truely cared about or loved.
All of my past girlfriends wanted to have sex, but I didn't care enough about them to give them myself, whenever I thought about it or came close to it I would feel extremly guilty about it. Then I met my last girlfriend we dated a few months and I feel in love with her hard (I still am), we broke up about 3 months ago and when we got together two months ago we had sex. I don't regret it at all because I love her and I really wanted her to be my first so I would always remember her if we lose touch in the future.
If your still reading this, I would suggest taking my advice. Marriage is great, but some never get married. But waiting until you truely care or love someone... That is what will make it all worth while.
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Hope it helps