A lot of people these days are having sex at younger and younger ages. I lost my virginity at 16, but what I want to know is, is there something wrong with being a virgin? It seems to me that so many people are in a rush to lose their virginity and get it over with, and others seem to hold on to it like something valuable.I'm not against sex or against virginity, but it seems to me that a lot of people these day are quickly taking sides. Is virginity nothing and your first time meaningless? Or is it somethings that we should do when we are ready? What are your thoughts? With the more and more people having sex, are virgins becoming extinct?
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Virginity, dispoisable or something precious?
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well, i was a virgin until recently, and for me, it was because i wasn't ready and i wanted to make sure that i am not "giving myself up" to the "wrong person". there are definitely many consequences that you might have to face and i think if you can't talk about those issues with your "significant other," than perhaps you aren't ready. so for me, my boyfriend and i had several talks about what we would do if i were to become pregnant, or scenarios of what we would do if the condom broke. i think talking about these issues and having those discussions made both of us more comfortable with the idea of sex, resulting in us being better prepared and allowing each other to know what the other person wants. thanks
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Well, I feel ready. I know I'm matured enough that I can handle it. But, one thing: I'm just not giving it up to anyone, It has to be special. So yeah, I consider my virginity something precious. You can have another first time again. You can have other partners, but not another 'first time'. As of right now, there is only ONE girl I would lose it to. No others. I dont care if a hot chick came up to me tomorrow and said "Lets fuck" I have more self control then that. I want it to mean something, I want it to be with someone I truely care about and/or love.(Heard its MUCH better that way.. so I'm prepared to wait) But thats just what I think on the issue. I have already had several chances to lose it.. and I have a girl right now.. If i wanted to, she would... My 2 cents
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i honestly wish i was a virgin.. when i lost it last year.. it was .. pretty easy to do i guess.. but now that i think of it i honestly wish i would have waited for someone special.. not just a 3 minute quicky when my mom was in the room below us.. i honestly hope most people wait.. because it really is something precious
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i havent had sex, and im not gonna loose it to some hoe, but i dont think of viriginity as anything special. i just think of it as some word that means nothing, and it is just having fun. you live once dont be so afraid of sins and all that. you have to test drive a car before you buy it. im not gonna live my whole like worrying about if i put enough sunscreen on myself before i went outside to walk the dog so i dont get sun cancer, its just like that. dont worry so much, have a good life. i can see other peoples view, and i cant explain mine well, i just dont think of it as some big thing to worry about.
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i want to be able to say "i waited for you, because you mean this much to me. the physical closeness shall match the emotional, 2 become 1, and hopefully will never be broken"
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you guys got to my head some im now like im not gonna have sex with just anyone for the first time, but wait until a good girlfriend. that is probably not been good enough you guys, but better then just bangin.