sorry if i write too much, i just have a lot on my mind.
alright, all i have been posting lately is about drama, but i guarantee, this is just boy problems.
earlier i had talked about not being able to be myself around that guy, ryne. well when i was over at his house one time, this happened on july 1st, he had this other friend over.
as usual, guys always come and talk to me, seriously, i just try and keep to myself, but i dunno, it was easier talking to this guy, his name is chris. well it was pretty obvious what he wanted from me, everyone could tell, even me, but maybe i just didn't want to notice.
the funny thing is, he actually went to high school with me (same grade and everything '04), but he never knew me, i knew of him, though.
the whole night he kept trying to make out with me, or i could tell he wanted to at least, but didn't try. we even had a chance to make-out NOT in front of everyone ((when we went to get food for people, it was just me and him, and i still wouldn't cave)).
things between ryne (he has a girlfriend now tho) and i were already not good...and well...yea...he prolly thought it woulda been more rude of me to make out with one of his friends in front of him.
lucky for me, my whole entire family for once, was out of town, and i was able to bring a guy over. i have never had a guy spend the night at my house before chris.
so i figured, maybe i'd let him come over and get to know him, see what he's like when he's just with me, ya know...and ya, all the while i did know what he wanted.
the whole entire time at ryne's and getting food, etc. i did not make out with him.
even when we first got to my house, i didn't do anything with him, we just sat on the computer and listened to music for a while. and then finally i don't know why, but i was like fine ((he didn't say anything, i was just thinking it)), so i made the first move and he was like, "i have been wanting to kiss u all night."
this is the first time i've ever tried so hard not to do ANYTHING with a guy (including making out...well i dont think im as much of a skank as fugly bitch, not even close ... she has a couple of kids and still whores herself around bars, i'm just saying it's not bad to make out only with guys i guess, heh). seriously, i wouldn't let him go down on me, and he definitely tried to go down there like once or twice, and i wouldn't do anything to him. we just made out a lot 'n stuff.
well, i dunno, he didn't have any protection, i had some, but i never told him, so i was like, too bad. but he did say he wanted to tease me, and so he did...if it was in there, but we weren't really going at it. does it count? like just in there for a tease, then i told him to stop before really getting at it and he did....does it count?
now i can't get him off my mind. i just keep thinking what would have happened if i still did let him spend the night, but we didn't "do it."
i didn't bother asking for his number, but earlier we had already added each other to facebook, so we do have a source of communication. since july 1st, he's only replied to one message and hasn't tried to contact me since. and i haven't really tried anymore either.
actually, he was the one that brought up about the number thing. he was like, "i don't have my cell with me." and i was like, "oh ok," and i didn't push any further. cuz i know u don't need the other person's cell to get a number. i could have asked and just stored it into my phone to call him and he could have had a missed call, but i didn't want to. i guess.
so ryne and buzy, naturally asked chris if he had sex with me, cuz they all knew...and chris told them yes, but from what i have described, does that count? some say it does and some say it doesn't. i'm just confused.