Sex for the first time..

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alright... I am 17 yrs old and have been with my guy for going on 6 monthes... we havent slept together yet although come very close. im still a virgin and hes not which doesnt bother me except for the fact that i really dont know what im doing. People say ya it comes natural, which it should but i would just kind of like to know what i can do other than just lie there and take it for the first time... (kind of embarressing cause i dont know know what to do ) also we havent really talked about having sex yet.. i know he wants to but im to shy and i think he is too to just come out and say it, so technically what can i do to show or tell him that im ready... ( decided to stay a virgin until i was in a committed relationship where i fuly trust the other person)

Thanks

i remember my first time. not to scare you or anything but it was a disaster. i poked her i and stubbed her nose. but we both laughed about it. my 2 cents to you. just go with the flow if you are ready. the best thing is, if it didn't go right the first time... there is always another time for improvement.

Hmmmm. Well, your first time you should probably "just lay there and take it" as you said. There is a good chance it's going to be somewhat painful.My first time was a major success. She wasn't a virgin and I was, but she came first and afterwards she was in disbelief that I never had sex before. Hahaha. That's what being a nerd and reading a lot of A2A can get ya.

Well, you don't exactly need to just "lie there" the whole time, there's more to sex than just intercourse, as you all know. :smirk: But, you should probably, when you get the courage to, talk to him about it, ask him what he wants to do. Then, if you have trouble with anything he's saying, like you don't know what it means or how to do it, then look it up online. That's how I developed my sexual techniques, porn and internet information! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

So are you saying the girl should be very active during her first time?

what are we supposed to just act as a hole as we get fucked? i dont think so buddy.

Yeah, well, I mean she doesn't have to ust GET fucked (CURSE), she can also give a blowjob, kiss and touch, etc.

lol. I was leaving out minor descriptions such as kissing, rubbing, etc. During the girl's first time it's not like they're going to be extremely active, like turning over and switching positions... Okay, so I'm sure there are some girl's who have done it that way, but ya know there are always exceptions.

weird no ones brought up the idea of waiting till you get married....well im going to bring it up. i think you should wait till you get married to have sex.-Mike

if anyone was curious on an update thank you for your responses.. finally got to that stage and omg it didnt realy hurt like i expected just kind of irrating and suprisingly i actually had my first orgasm.. weird tho cause i heard 70% of women cant acheive orgasm through "penetration". i got another post check it out especially to the girls