Hi. Umm, okay, where to start. Well, I've been masturbating for a while now, a few years, but i've always done it through underwear, like, i guess 'humping' my hand. I always get off doing that. But lately I've been trying fingering myself, and i feel pretty much nothing from it. The same with rubbing my clit. It's not a problem of being like turned on, and relaxed and stuff, because I always am. My boyfriend has tried a couple times too, and I've been very turned on, but I still felt nothing. Is this normal? Does anyone else have this problem? (i'm a virgin, btw.. if that matters lol)
Not feeling anything...
Are you on birth control or any types of medication? As a man, I couldn't relate to having a vagina, but at times I'll feel like all the jacking in the world couldn't get me off. I feel the need, and I feel the urge, but I don't "feel" anything. From there it's just a point of waiting. Sometimes (IMO) the body just feels tired of masturbation.
If you're really determined to bring some sort of spark back, you could always look into a small toy or something to focus on clitoral massage (I say that since your a virgin and penetration of normal size objects probably wont work so well.)