So I need some advice on my current 9 month relationship. Basically me and my girlfriend met at a summer internship that we were at for the summer of 2009. We started dating exclusively and I broke it off at the end of summer saying it wouldn't work cuz she is three hours away from my college. Two weeks later I said it was a mistake and we got back together.
We have been happily together since and she has been in France since January 4th and will be there until June 1st. Now, it's not the being abroad that is making me have doubts, but it is our differences. WE have absolutely nothing in common and she doesn't seem to want to embrace anything that I offer to do such as going hiking, certain movies, sports, etc. Anytime we go out it is always where I want to go because she can't decide. I know these sound like little things but the fact that she hasn't introduced me to anything NEW ever...and that were complete opposites continually has me having doubts.
Now the reason I am having so much trouble over this is because we get along very well, but I almost don't think that is enough. We get along very well and hang out whoever, but it's always ABOUT ME and I feel like I could be with someone else who also has the quality of wanting to try new things or showing me new things.
I'm not sure cuz I love her soo much, but we are having the same internship when she get's back from France...and I have a feeling if I wait till then I'll just go with the flow and stay in my 'comfort zone'. Also, if we break up - it will make the internship very depressing considering it is in a very small town.
I also feel like she is way more into me than I am into her and that scares me. I don't know what to do because I broke up with her before and regretted it and ended up getting back together. Should I break it off, let her have her freedom in France, both of us date around, and if it's meant to be see what happesn in the summer? I'm not sure that is a viable option as I see too much damage would be done.
I love being with her but I have trouble picturing spending the rest of my life with her ..... is all this normal? Because I don't feel like I should be having these doubts - what do I do
Girlfriend abroad, doubted relationship before....
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