Going out, please help

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i really want to go out with a guy, next year im going to a new school and i really want to have a guy want me, see i am not that attractive, im bigger, but i do have friends, and i have had guys friends before, but i want to be asked out again cuz its been like to years, but im scared a guy wont want to date me, how do i make myself noticable? and how to make guys want to go out with me next year im in 10th grade and want to have dates for dances and just for what ever, please help

First things first...You can't make someone "want you".
But if you want to find out if this special guy is capable of liking you, you should just talk to him first..get to know this person...carry a conversation...specially since you'll be the new kid on the block. Show HIM..or Them your special qualitites, but don't go overboard with everything, or you'll push them away.
Just be yourself and be honest, sounds like you are social skills having girl and guy friends. If you're still not sure...ask your guy friends to help you out on how to approach your guy...and always remember to respect yourself...don't seel yourself short just to "blend in with the crowd"...and good luck. :smile:

ok thanx, i hope it works 8)

If you try too hard you'll fail

what does that mean

He means if you try too hard (being someone you're not or over act), it's going to become a mess and you're not going to get what you want.

oh i see that makes sense