okay sooo..theres this boy...I met him this year at the beginning of school. We somehow got stuck together in the far back seats of a horrible class. We've become really close friends and he even got me a job at the place where he works at. Ive had alittle crush on him for a few months now, I dont even know where it came from. After me and my boyfriend broke up he started flirting with me alloooot. Especially at work.The other night we were talking and he ended up telling me that hes wanted to get with me ever since the beginning of school. I told him the feeling was mutual. But now whenever im around him at work he starts talking about how I should go out with this guy jim who likes me.I dont get it, why would he try to hook me up with some other guy?oh, him and jim are really good friends apparently.
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Confuuuused.
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Why don't you ask him? Perhaps he doesn't feel the same way anymore.
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Maybe he feels that even though he care about you, that it would be unproffesionall to have a relationship at work? Or perhaps he feel that he isn't good enough for you? Like Virtual_Star said ask him
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He only told me this two days ago. can it really change that fast?
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idk but maybe he thought you weren't interested and know he feels embarassed because he told you he likes you and is trying to get your mind off of him
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You're asking the wrong person, sweetheart. Why don't you ask him in person? You two already opened up your feelings to one another, so asking him shouldn't be so akward.
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i agree and maybe you guys can become closer as friends just talk ovr lunch not as a date as a lunch idk what i'm saying though
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If youre unsure of what to write, you shouldnt post.Not trying to be mean, just trying to be honest.
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It's not that I'm unsure what to write. It's just I'm not this guy you're talking about. I nor anyone on this board is a mind reader. The only way you'll get your answer is through this guy.ADDED: Okay, I'll try a little harder. Originally Posted By: floridacansuckitThe other night we were talking and he ended up telling me that hes wanted to get with me ever since the beginning of school. I told him the feeling was mutual. But now whenever im around him at work he starts talking about how I should go out with this guy jim who likes me.Perhaps, that's how he felt, at first. I kinda mentioned that he may not feel the same anymore. I don't know when "the beginning of school" was for you, but if it's been a while, then yeah, he could have easily changed his mind. And perhaps the reason he can confidently tell you this now, because he doesn't feel the same way anymore. Maybe he liked you at first, but when time passed by, he now just wants to be friends because he got to know you better.I'm just pulling this guess out of the air based on what you said. Again, I'm not a mind reader. The answer you seek is with this guy. Ask him to be sure.