Err.. Precum-

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So, I do not produce much at all, well, never enough to see. But the other day I was kinda teasing someone before going down on them for lack of a better word, but here is my question... And it should probably be common knowledge, but oh well, I don't know, would someone who is really aroused excrete alot of precum WITHOUT physical contact?
Or could someone have alot without being aroused? Mm... Just asking, because you know, I've never dealt with so much like I did this time, haha.

Originally Posted By: Reen Tar would someone who is really aroused excrete alot of precum WITHOUT physical contact? Yup! It varies for guys, some precum a lot and some very little. It also depends how aroused the guy is as well. If I am super aroused I precum a lot without even touching myself.

And do you think it is likely that a straight person would be that aroused when with a gay guy?This, my friend, is bugging me, either he is into me and is feeling really awkward about it because he thinks he is totally straight, or he's just weird... Having the thoughts of having a guy blow you while you're straight is exciting to him I guess. XDI will ask him tomorrow all these questions... I dunno... I'm a lil bit worried..

Sounds to me like your friend is at least curious, and the thought of sexual relations with another man is arousing.

Wait, wait, wait... I'm confused about something. You are, or have been, close enough to this guy to know how much pre-cum he produces but you don't know if he's interested? Granted I'm 34 years old and it's been awhile since I've hung out with just guys but I don't know that many guys who would let a gay guy know (in whatever way) how much pre-cum they're producing without being up for little somethin'. Of course if he's young and hormones are raging the thought of any sexual act may get him all hot and bothered even if he has no interest in actually pursuing it. How old is he?Then there are those guys for who a receptive mouth is a receptive mouth regardless who's going down on them.Anyway, to answer your original question, yes, it is possible for guys, depending on the guy and his state of arousal, to produce a lot of precum without contact.

He is 18. Mm... So, I went down on him for a second time, there was alot more this time, and I was basically helping him test his sexuality, basically... Hang on let me start over, I let him 'do' me, and he finished and when we were just laying there he told me that he felt really really awkward, like he wasn't being himself, worried I guess, but it's kinda obvious that he liked it, because he was still hard 15 minutes after he finished.I blew him again... And then it wen down... Your comments on this? doesn't make much sense to me, since he is cutting me off, by the way, this is what my friend Leticia told me, since he is hispanic, he may not be willing to cope with himself being gay or bi, because of society, like, his parents are really old fashioned, and him being Catholic... I dunno, him no wanting to be gay or bi could be a part of it, but no doubt about it he did say he felt weird about it, and I think it's because he was expecting to not like it and he ended up liking it. Wow, this is kinda long, eh?But yeah, he's cutting me off, and I'm the one who gets attached easily, and I told him this. So, yeah, I might be sad for a while...

he did say he felt weird about it.....I think it's because he was expecting to not like it and he ended up liking it. Well, when does a BJ not feel good? Maybe he felt weird because it felt good but he was kinda grossed out about it.

Originally Posted By: sdp Well, when does a BJ not feel good? Maybe he felt weird because it felt good but he was kinda grossed out about it. No no, I'm talking about him having sex with me, like... Him boning me. >.>;

Same thing applies.

I guess... I don't know, I think I am just as confused as he is...

Lol, I'm not... I'm just looking out for myself... Because hello, if he's straight there's no chance of a relationship happening...

My advice is if you get attached easily and you are afraid of getting hurt than perhaps you need to step away from the situation until he figured out his sexuality.

Originally Posted By: Reen TarI guess, but it's kinda obvious that he liked it, because he was still hard 15 minutes after he finished.This means nothing. What's happening in his body has nothing to do with what's going on in his mind. Sure, it felt good. But that doesn't mean he liked what he was doing or wants to continue doing it. If you back off, respect his desire to not have sex with you again (if that's what it is), you might at least come out of this with your friendship intact. It's not your job to force him into a decision about his sexuality.

Originally Posted By: Reen Tar

if he's straight there's no chance of a relationship happening...
Or for that matter if he's still questioning his sexuality.

Until he knows himself what he wants, any relationship gay, straight or otherwise is going to be filled with peril.

You all make some pretty good comments, and I'll try to not go into defensive mode, uhmm... Yeah, Oldfolks is right, if he doesn't know what he wants, or has a good idea of what he wants, err.. But is intimidated by it(?) Then I assume it would be hard to have a stable relationship with that person, so far our friendship has not been put into jeopardy, but that could happen for anything like, me not covering his shift for him...So, okay, I'll take your advice, I hijacked my own thread. >.>;

young love....... So much fun yet full of Drama Hang in there buddy!

Originally Posted By: Reen Tar ...I'm talking about him having sex with me, like... Him boning me. >.>; Okay, so now we know he's topped somebody (you), but do u know if he's ever been a receiver? I'm guessing you;ve nevr topped him.I'm 15, and I know I have really enjoyed messing around with other guys but for two reasons I do not consider myself gay. First is because I know I'm attracted to girls, I have a gf, we have sex, and it is absolutely fantastic. Second, is that I have never felt "romantic" about a guy...like wanting to hug and kiss him. In fact, that seems pretty gross to me.So, has your friend ever had sex with a girl yet? I guess if he has, u can try to find out whether he found it more of a turn-on to be doing it with u or with the girl...(Does that make sense?)

So ScottyP14
.... Let me try to understand this....So what your saying is you're straight.... becasue you like girls and have a girlfriend but you still like having sex with other guys becasue your able to seperate having gay sex from your emotional side and you're just get your nuts off...
Right?

He got pretty sensual, kissing and licking my body, my lips, yeah, it was pretty emotional. Err, he has had sex with females, so, you know.. And I'm not gonna ask him which was better, because that would be horrible. XDI'm just going to silently wait and watch, if he decides that he's even the slightest bit gay, or bi or whatever, he can come to me, since I know I had an impact on him. Imma wait for him, while not putting a halt on my own life, like I have done for some guys in the past..

Just don't keep waiting for that something if not there.Only you will be able to tell. You sound like you're an awesome man and have a great amount of love to give someone. Don't allow him to make you a "booty Call" when all he wants is to get his rocks off. you're so much better than that... that's all I'm saying