Hey again. To make things short and sweet, I'm dating that girl I spoke about in the year above. She's headed off to Uni last week, and although I'm going up to see her on the weekend (she's only gone an hour away), and although she keeps saying how much she misses me, I end up winding myself up about the whole thing.She doesnt start her course for another week, but this week is freshman week, and I'm going nuts with paranoia that she's going to be going out getting completely wasted and going to events like foam parties and there are going to be a bunch of sex-fuelled guys around her. I trust her completely, but I'd be devestated if she got drunk and ended up getting taken advantage of, or carried away.I knew this would be difficult, but I just need some help coping with these thoughts. I'm going to be able to go see her once a week at least so it's not that bad, its just this bloody week when the students go out, get pissed and sleep about that's killing me inside.Comfort please?
Help with jealousy issues?
If it's just this week that you're truly worried about, then you can conquer it with some willpower. I'm sure you trust your girlfriend, but I can understand your concern. However, don't make these feelings apparent to her because it'll cause your relationship to crumble otherwise. Obviously, if anything does happen, and i'd never wish it on you, then yes, you would have place to raise your concern. But for now, stay trustworthy of your girl and stay relaxed.
Just recently the same situation happened to me, but just the opposite. I recently left for college about 2 hours away, the first week was pretty rough for her, 2nd week got a lot better. We saw eachother yesterday and that went fine and maybe not be able to see eachother for another 2 weeks maybe then possibly a month and half before the next seeing. It seems that she has gotten used to me away but still worried slightly