A beauuuuuuutiful theory. I hope you get dental where you work. Directness isn't always the best approach, despite what logic might lead you to believe. Use tact. When your asked if this or that makes her butt look big you'll be far better off replying that "I think that other dress really makes you look great, I say wear it."
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I find other girls really attractive
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Silly question, but I suppose I'm allowed to ask considering the nature of A2A...what's ''get dental''?
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Thanks for the clarification! I didn't read that part today, but yesterday or something and completely forgot!smiles
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Mmmmmmmm......scrambled brains.It is the week of Halloween after all.
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haha, my girlfriend and i were gonna do that! but we figured it would be on halloween, and when we checked it was the day of :smirk: next year i suppose :P
i was reading a post a few days ago where a girl was saying that her relationship was lacking sex as of late, and she eventualy got her boyfriend to admit that he was finding her less attractive because she had gained weight. it was over the course of a year and he said he still loved her very much, but she had forced him to admit it. she said she was more upset that he hadent told her and she had continued her unhealthy habbits, now it was going to be harder to get back into shape.
i suppose you have to have a good balance then. you cant outright lie about her appearance because that can lead to problems, but you cant be mean ether. i think I've decided if i ever say anything about this it will be several years from now, during which time i will try and be as honest as possible without hurting feelings, and i hope ether this feeling will go away, or we will be at a point in my relationship where i'm super confident that my girlfriend knows i love her.
if this feeling persists with the intensity it is now, and the question goes unanswered, then i dont know if ill be happy in several years having this constantly wearing my will. at the moment im pretty damn happy tho :smile:
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Telling someone their butt looks big is mean?
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Honestly...if you can't stand to listen to the response, don't ask the question. (And if a girl is asking, it's almost certain she already knows the answer...so she's got nobody to blame but herself.)
That said, I understand the a girl is looking for affirmation about her appearance...if my wife asked me that question, I'd say "Yes...and I like it that way (which is true)." But this does NOT give a girl the right to expect such an answer from a boy...especially one who hasn't been around long. Understanding the female of the species takes time and experience...and if women knew men half as well as they expect men to know them, they'd understand this already without me having to point it out. :laughing:
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i, and my girlfreind, agree :P. she says she isn't to worried about her physical apperence, but she has been gaining some weight lately and its causing her a little bit of worry. its not to big of a deal to me she said she thinks her boobs and butt are getting bigger and i said, after liberal groaping, yep i think your right. :Poh, that made me think, what do you guys think about asking your significant other to lose weight? i think its a healthy thing to want to look good for your significant other but its not a good thing to worry that they wont love you anymore. i want her to want to look good for me, and i want to look good for her. this just came into my head because of what i was talking about, i dont feel i need to ask my girlfriend to lose weight or anything, just wondering about what you think
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Originally Posted By: largedumbjakewhat do you guys think about asking your significant other to lose weight?Well I think your screen name here says it all. All I can say is go with God and what kind of flowers do you want on your casket?
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that second one is pretty smart... hmmm... uh oh... she just asked me the other day if i wanted to start taking mixed martial arts at the comm college... o.O -pokes his stomach- i wonder....