yeah it would be so hard in the US. its a dodgy business not havin medical cover. i guess im real lucky really. if i was in the US i would have kept my 1st but prob not have had a second in tht sit. its hard anyway but with no support its worse. as i said rewarding but hard, i think its not for the faint hearted.a support system is necsissary for most parents whatever the age, without it things are mega hard so id say girls who know the guy will leave them and the parents wont help or who know theyd need state help should not get them selves in a sit where they become preg.
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NO SYMPATHY FOR TEEN MOTHERS
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Like say if someone had caught a disease from having sex and they are pressuring another one of their friends to have sex it is also for the reason for that person to experience what they are going through.That's seriously sociopathic behavior, and people should go to prison for that. That was from way out in left field, and definitely needed explanation.It's a lot simpler than that, since most boys don't carry STIs: young guys want to get laid. They'll use any ploy they can think of to get into a girl's pants. Girls need to understand that and not let themselves be pressured into having sex.
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Can't argue with that. But it's a lot easier to find and pay for (good quality) day care once your career is established and you have a reasonable income.In the U.S., the incidence of teen pregnanacy has dropped in the past 20-or-so years. But the incidence of having children out of wedlock has gone way, way up. In a lot of those situations, there is little or no involvement of the father.
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Yeah, no more comments from me unless it's serious. This mouth of mine gets me into so much trouble.Reality Check.
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One thing to keep in mind is that this is an international forum. People have certain ways of communicating ("How many stone do you weigh?") that's not well-understood in other regions. Some things that you'd tell a neigbor, joking around, might be misunderstood by someone in Colorado or Australia.Why do the British talk about their weight in stone anyway? Are there scales that are calibrated in that unit?
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I just wanted to say that I agree with Angel. I've noticed your snide comments also. And yes alot of members do the same thing, but you throw in these comments out of no where. Like when your talking about strippers and then mention "members on here that don't wear underwear". This is why I don't like you.
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I second that, some of the comments are a little uncalled for, But i realize i make some mean comments sometimes then i read over what i say later and PM the person about how mean i think i was (now have the time they dont notice i was mean, which is cool) or i try to edit if i can still. But some of the things you say are just out there. I dont dislike you or hate you smooches.
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By the way, I really admire your strength and ability to do such an amazing thing. I dont want kids (any time soon or in the future) but im not a kids person. I think having kinds period is difficult and hard enough, but at the age and carrying a stangers baby is absolutely amazing. I hope you end up well in life, and I wish you and your family a wonderful future :smile:
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thank you, like i said to me hes not a strangers baby hes my baby. i guess it would hurt too much wondering what would have happened if i hadnt kept him. my kids and bf are my world. everyones diff, not everyone is a kid person but i cant imagine my life without them. although there are no plans for any more atm (and i assure u there wont be 4 a long while) in the future im up for doin it all again. i think its all down to supporting the child at the end of the day, if u can give your children what they need and bring them up well enough to respect others and themselves then youre onto a winner. on the subject of sayin rude things, people are intitled to thier oppinion but maybe some thought is needed before a post is made. there are non offensive ways to put everything across. think before you make a point ppl thats all.
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::sigh:: I feel like I'm being crucified... ok wrong joke.Like I said before. I'm sorry guys...er girls if I come off that way and it will never happen again. I don't mean to snide anyone or anything like that and I promise it will never happen again. Especially you Lish. I know you are older than me and I was wrong to disrespect you by saying all those things to you like that. All comments will be kept to myself from now 0_0. I never knew I was such a mean person... far from perfect. But thanks for letting me know anyway so I can start keeping myself in check.
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In reply to:
Why do the British talk about their weight in stone anyway? Are there scales that are calibrated in that unit?
Before we went metric here, any scales designed for weighing the person were marked in stones, with pounds as the subdivision. (Curiously, in that sentence "stones" sounds better than "stone".)
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Curiously...Funny, I thought about that as I was typing it. I typed the "s", then went back and deleted it.The stone is a pretty coarse unit, so if you round down, it can make you sound rather lighter than you actually are. Imagine if there were a unit called the splonk, equal to 50 pounds. Rounded down, I'd only weigh 3 splonk. It's hard to believe there was time I only weighed 2 splonk. I think my body-splonk index has gone up a bit. (Yeah, I know, the splonk is a unit of weight, not mass.)
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In reply to: Imagine if there were a unit called the splonk I really wish I had some sort of psychiatric training so I could get inside the mind that thought up the 'splonk' unit
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You'd just find a lot of dark twisty passages, cobwebs, and brightly-colored spiders.
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Empty Corridors... (sorry couldnt resist :stuck\_out\_tongue\_winking\_eye:)
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They're empty because I'm waiting to have the floors waxed. The llama left a mess.
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Now what did i tell you about keeping animals in there? lmao
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In reply to:dark twisty passages Are they 'dark twisty passages' or are they 'little twisty passages' or are they 'twisty little passages' or are they 'dark twisty little passages' or are they 'twisty little dark passages'?Or do you have absolutely no idea what I'm babbling about?
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"Twisty little passages, all alike" is a reference to Adventure, the very first computer adventure game, before the days of graphics...it was all text. No gigaflop graphics processors and high res displays....just teletype terminals.
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This post has come a little bit off topic..."twisty little corridors",stones and weight,and a whole bunch of people say how smooches is such a mean person...lol.Anyways,I think that silligirls is somewhat right,but sympathy is always needed in this type of matter.I respect the women that raise a child all by themselves without a husband or bf.Imagine how hard it would be supporting a child by yourself?I would NEVER leave my gf no matter how hard it would get.It is actually pretty sad how the fathers just leave like that...I actually pity them.Oh ya,Smooches I dont think you are a bad person.