ok, I dont know if other girls feel this way or not. This is what happens when I am with my BF--Since the first time we kissed when we were both 12 its been the same........I feel very dizzy, cant breathe, my brain goes blank, cant answer anything he asks, looking at him makes it even worse. Everytime he kisses me he holds me tightly cos I collasped once or twice before. Its takes me a few hours to return to normal....my friends and my parents keep laughing at me and almost everyone knows I was with him as soon they see me. It makes me shy and nervous to face anyone after I meet him, I lock myself in my room and start crying as I feel so miserable.I have kissed many guys in my life but I never reacted like this to anyone but him. I am worried something is very very wrong with me. I askd few of my friends they didnt answer but started laughing so I never askd anyone again. It is bothering me so much its depressing. Is this normal or not?
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Is this normal?
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Probably means you are very much in love with him.. Too bad we all can't feel like that again.
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love? I do love him but this is affecting my life so much
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It sounds like a sort of shock syndrome. Do you have low blood pressure? Do you get dizzy if you get out of bed too quickly?It may be you are just an unusually sensitive person.
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my BP is always 90/60......pulse is 80-100 even at rest When I see him I dont know what my BP or pulse is cos I never checked it. He would think I am crazy if I did that.I am not a very sensitive person normally.... its just that this guy is really affecting me too much Shock syndrome?
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A shock syndrome is when blood pressure drops, causing dizziness and faintness. Your blood pressure is at the bottom end of the normal range, perhaps making you more susceptible.
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Do you think I should see a doc?
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I'm not sure that much can be done medically. The reactions will fade with time as they always do, as otherwise no-one would get any work done. Perhaps you just need to face them with confidence that it shows you are a deeply loving person.
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does it usually last long? I have had this problem for nearly 13 yrs....I am 25 now. As for getting work done I cant cook or even make some coffee when he is around, I cut my fingers or get burns or drop things and make a mess, he wont let me go to the kitchen cos of that.
Can you give me any ideas to cope with this? Some ways I can lessen the effect perhaps.
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Oh heavens, I hadn't realised it had been for so long. I wonder if there is an element of anxiety in your reaction?
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No anxiety. Its quite the opposite, I feel happy, safe and comfortable with him.
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I'm guessing, but I wonder if hypnotherapy might help?