My GF and I have been living together for almost a year. Her mother kept hounding her to get an exam of her sexual area which my GF has never wanted to do before.Everything was all right down there except for one thing. The doctor told my GF that the opening between her lips where her pee comes out is too small. He wants her to come back and he will use something to stretch it open more. My GF already told him no way, she doesn't want her pee hole made bigger.We only have one bthroom, so we are in there together lots of times. She pees for a lot longer than me, but it sounds like it comes out OK, pretty much like mine when I sit down, just kind of softer.I have to help her when she takes those home preg tests, so I've watched while she holds her lips apart and pees so the test gets held in her pee. Sometimes i've wiped her pee hole and lips and the place where her pee comes out seems big enough.How big is the hole supposed to be on a girl? Does it hurt if it's smaller?
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I'm with alby, *definitely* get a second opinion. I've heard of procedures being done if a woman *can't* urinate. but if nothing is painful or being hindered there's no point in having a procedure done. Definitely get a second opinion. This could be to him like what tonsil removal was to doctors several years ago. Got a cold? Lets rip those things out of there and put some money in my pocket.. err.. make you feel better.
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Her mother pested her for years to go to a doctor who specializes in women's private parts and this was her experience - with herlegs held up in the air and all her private parts exposed, things that are private only between she and I, that even her moter hadn't seen since she was a baby wearing nappies or being bathed.He put his hands where only she and I touch and then wanted to see her pee but se wasn't able to because she already peed just before the appointment. He showed her a long metal thingie that is used to stretch women's pee opening and it scared her very badly, so I can tell you she won't go again to this kind of docter unless I am there to protect her.Touching and kissing her lips and around her woman's penis and pee opening are part of our sex play and she is afraid the doctor would change the feelings that are so delicious now for her down there.I can't believe I am telling these things. She would die if she knew, but the doctor made me worry.
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Originally Posted By: ChristiaanHer mother pested her for years to go to a doctor who specializes in women's private parts and this was her experience - with herlegs held up in the air and all her private parts exposed, things that are private only between she and I, that even her moter hadn't seen since she was a baby wearing nappies or being bathed.He put his hands where only she and I touch and then wanted to see her pee but se wasn't able to because she already peed just before the appointment. He showed her a long metal thingie that is used to stretch women's pee opening and it scared her very badly, so I can tell you she won't go again to this kind of docter unless I am there to protect her.Touching and kissing her lips and around her woman's penis and pee opening are part of our sex play and she is afraid the doctor would change the feelings that are so delicious now for her down there.I can't believe I am telling these things. She would die if she knew, but the doctor made me worry. Wanted to see her pee? Like right on the examining table? How old is this girl? Was anyone else in the room? I'm sorry but something smells very fishy here (oh crap, horrible unintended pun). I for one would NOT go back to that doctor. Again, you need to get a second opinion.Also, its my understanding that some men can be jealous of their significant other going to male gynecologists and those who do mammograms etc. etc. I'm not for or against that, I really see no need to have to justify feelings of jealousy in people, but if that IS something that bothers you, I recommend working together to find a female OB/GYN. I doubt turning her tail up to a random guy makes her any more comfortable than it does you.
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Question is...why was her mother pestering her about it? Did she know something was wrong? And if so, how?Has she complained before?I'd definately recommend going to another doctor, if any case to discuss what the other doctor did was common procedure. Don't mention which doctor it was, and try to go to a different practice altogether.Might be grounds for a malpractice/harrassment suit there. Asking to watch her urinate sounds like a borderline breach of human rights.Also, I'm assuming by "woman's penis" that you mean vagina, right?
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Originally Posted By: sadbuttrueQuestion is...why was her mother pestering her about it? Did she know something was wrong? And if so, how?Has she complained before?I'd definately recommend going to another doctor, if any case to discuss what the other doctor did was common procedure. Don't mention which doctor it was, and try to go to a different practice altogether.Might be grounds for a malpractice/harrassment suit there. Asking to watch her urinate sounds like a borderline breach of human rights.Also, I'm assuming by "woman's penis" that you mean vagina, right? My guess was that he was either referring to the urethral opening, or to her clitoris. Either way OP (original poster), we are a very open community that enjoy when our members confide in our large group for help. In saying that you're free to call sexual organs with whatever you feel comfortable with. You can be as frank or simple as you want. I personally dont mind if someone calls their penis a cock, a penis, a schlong, a dinkle it doesn't matter to me.But at times we may be a little confused by terms we haven't heard before. So when we ask you what it is we're not making fun of you for the term you choose, simply asking for some clarification because some of us have never heard that term used before
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Originally Posted By: sadbuttrue
Question is...why was her mother pestering her about it? Did she know something was wrong? And if so, how?
Has she complained before?
I'd definately recommend going to another doctor, if any case to discuss what the other doctor did was common procedure. Don't mention which doctor it was, and try to go to a different practice altogether.
Might be grounds for a malpractice/harrassment suit there. Asking to watch her urinate sounds like a borderline breach of human rights.Also, I'm assuming by "woman's penis" that you mean vagina, right?
Her mother pested her about going because she is 23 and her mother said it is a good thing just to have a check up, but my GF didn't complain anything is wrong. I can't imagine anybody being able to convince her to go to any other of this type of doctor.
By woman's penis, I mean the part of a girl that looks like a little boy's penis but she doesn't pee there. There are other names for it but I wanted to not be vulgar here.
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Originally Posted By: ChristiaanBy woman's penis, I mean the part of a girl that looks like a little boy's penis but she doesn't pee there. There are other names for it but I wanted to not be vulgar here. You don't have to worry about being vulgar here We are a very open community. If you don't want to be vulgar, then you can just use the proper word for it...after all, you used the word penis. I'm still not quite sure what you mean but I would assume you mean her clitoris. In which case there aren't really any vulgar terms for it anyway! You could have clit, love button, nubbin - and then I'm out of ideas!