I'M SO HURT!! :(

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Yeesh.i don't know what I ever did to you to bring on this sort of like "RAWHHHH IM GONNA PISS ON YOUR FACE" attitude, but seriously.. its harsh dude.I'm not 12 thanks. I'm 21.and I dont understand this." but if you don't dumb and stay broken up with him, you are a real p.o.s"So hmm.. why don't you try and proofread your posts instead of like.. kicking me in the face while im down. I really don't know what you're talking about. O_okthx

expletive deleted. I am truly sorry about not proof reading my last post. Please change 'dumb' to 'dump'. Now go get some self-esteem and dumP his ass (forever). After you do that go find a 'worth-a-fuck' man. That is all.

holy shit man. Grow up, and go away.Like, how are you even allowed to still be on this site? You're a total jerk with NO respect towards anybody! GO AWAY.

How is my last post worthy of such an attack?

YOU CALLED ME A FUCKING SLUT. THAT'S WHY! And then you edit your post. Now GO AWAY.

What? I would never. You are in no way a slut. Just vulnerable and du... errr.... in need of guidance/good advice.

Yep.whatevvvvvv.I WILL get you banned if you keep it up. I guarentee it.

Okay. Do it.

If my extremely helpful advice is 'ban-worthy' get to it.

Originally Posted By: ashley69I don't want people bitching at me for trying to give him a chance here. I just want to know what other people would do. We've been dating almost a year! And I love him. And he loves me. He has no explanation for what he did. I mean, other couples go through things that are worse than this, and they can work through it. So do you think there is any hope left for us? I want him working his ass off to get me back. We're still together, but we both know that I could dump him at any minute, and honestly I want him scared shitless. He's scared but I think he's expecting it... And I don't know when I will even see him again. He lives 4 hours away until the fall when we had plans to live together. I had plans to see him next week, but now I'm doubting it, unless he wants to pay my way out there. I feel like taking part of the bus money and buying myself a sexy pair of shoes. Oh, and mom really hates him for this. And says that he will probably never be welcome back in the house again At least not for a long time. And I told him I hated him for what he did to me I love him, but I hate how he risked our relationship for some skank bitch that he hasn't even met in real life! I can relate, I once found pictures of my own girlfriend that had been sent to another guy that lived pretty far away. I was devastated, and from then on the relationship never had the same trust. I don't think comparing this situation to other couples' is really wise - maybe it's good to try to rationalize the situation, but at the same time every relationship is different. It's been a week or more now since this happened (I think), so the initial reactions and feelings should start to wear off and you can think about it more clearly. You'll probably find that it will take a long time, if ever, for the same level of trust to return to the relationship. Obviously this is terrible timing because you were going to move in with him - but it could be a positive, if that's possible. It allows you to take a step back and analalyze the direction the relationship is going and whether you want to make that commitment. Sometimes just loving a person isn't enough. I can also relate to a parent having a dislike for someone you're in a relationship with. My parents, atleast, made it really awkward because they weren't receptive to her, at all. You mentioned you hated how he risked your relationship. Do you feel he values it as much as you do?

Why would you even stay with this man? Why can't you demand more for yourself? What the fuck is wrong with you?

He did lie. He said she was the only one.. and lied about that.

glad to hear you say that.

Hey Ash, I'm sorry you're going through such a rough patch. Since you've already decided to give him a chance, give him only one more chance. And honestly, if he screws up again, put your foot down and break up.This isn't healthy for you. He's putting you through a lot of emotional pain and it's not worth it. No man is worth that. If he doesn't want to change, then you can't help him and there's no hope for this relationship to work. Trust is important but it seems like it's been shattered and it's going to take a lot of time to pick up the pieces. If he can't do that, then what else can you do?I wish you the best of luck. But don't forget how special and beautiful you are. You deserve so much more than you're getting right now. The most important thing to do is keep up your self-esteem.hugsAnd P.S., don't let memcmatty get to you. He's just another internet troll.

Originally Posted By: memcmattynot to sound like an asshole (too much) but if you don't dumb and stay broken up with him, you are a real p.o.s who's bringing heartache on yourself. i see women do this all the time. pisses me off when people thinking 'working through the issues' (issues like that) is somehow noble and NOT degrading. --- i can see how this could have been taken the wrong way, steph. but i wasn't meaning to call her a piece of shit. more of saying that if she intends on keeping herself in this situation just to keep getting her, she is dumb.

What does this mean??"you are a real p.o.s who's bringing heartache on yourself."

"not to sound like an asshole (too much) but if you don't dumb and stay broken up with him, you are a real p.o.s who's bringing heartache on yourself." --- go ahead and pick and choose what you want. if you think this sentence doesn't sound tongue and cheek(ish) i don't know what to tell you

a⋅pol⋅o⋅gize  /əˈpɒləˌdʒaɪz/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [uh-pol-uh-jahyz] Show IPA–verb (used without object), -gized, -giz⋅ing.1. to offer an apology or excuse for some fault, insult, failure, or injury: He apologized for accusing her falsely.2. to make a formal defense in speech or writing.

pseu⋅do  /ˈsudoʊ/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [soo-doh] Show IPA–adjective1. not actually but having the appearance of; pretended; false or spurious; sham.2. almost, approaching, or trying to be

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