Alright, well i've been hanging out with this girl for a while now and i've really started liking her a lot. We have a ton in common and i think we'd be really good together. She's just about all i think about and i love hanging out with her.Problem though. She has a boyfriend. She never talks about him, i never hear of her hanging out with him and she talks to me more than him. She's also been kind of flirty around me lately, but i don't think i know her well enough to say if she doesn't isn't like that around all of her male friends.What, if anything, should i do? I need to do something, i can't keep this up for much longer, it really sucks liking someone this much and not being able to do anything about it.Please help!
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She has a boyfriend!
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I don't understand why people don't leave those who are in relationships alone.You're treading on dangerous territory. When someone is taken that means they are well.. TAKEN.Until she makes the move to break up with him to be with you, you need to back off. It's called respect.
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So if she has a boyfriend he's not allowed to speak to her or be a friend? She's not married to the guy. Maybe their relationship is not serious. Maybe these two are better of together than she is with this other guy..I say ask her what her relationship is with this other guy. Everything is a competition and unless she's married or in a serious long term relationship, it's fair game.
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Dont do anything.. just continue to be friends with her and DO NOT try to take it to another level
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I say, find out where her relationship stands with her current boyfriend. If it's something serious or not, let her decide. If she really likes you and wants to be with you, then let her make that choice. But be cautious. The last thing you want is to take part of a love triangle or be played by an uncommitted woman.
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I wasn't saying they shouldn't speak but almost EVERY situation I've seen where a guy or girl is hitting on another guy or girl in a relationship and they always say "they don't even seem interested"... 99.9% of the time ends up in a blood bath. Stupid shizz but... it may just be the crazy people I'm around.
Plus I think I'd be really upset if I found out my bf was off getting cakey with some other chick... oh wait... :scream\\\_cat: