Do I have SBS?

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Sexual burnout syndrome?I'm growing more and more tired of sex. In the past few weeks I jacked off almost daily sometimes twice a day and now I am hardly turned on by anything not even naked women and when I jack off I need totally long before I cum. Usually I always came way too fast now I cum way too late. What's going on? Did I overdo it? Could this be harmful? I think in chinese medicine they believe that every ejaculation costs the man life energy. What if you can burn yourself out this way? How can I recharge my male battery and become horny again?

Calm down and stop over reacting. Give your body a couple days rest.

take some time and don't masturbate so much!! Find a woman to do these things to you.. that might turn you on!

I'm simply so disappointed. Other males seem to be much more horny than I am. This makes me feel unmasculine. And I also think it's not fair that women can have so many Os. It's like women can rub their junk all day and escape into an unreal worlds of pure ecstasy while for me it's like 20 seconds of twitching down there and that's it. This is so unfair. I thought if I don't have much fun in life then maybe at least I could retreat into a world of sexual bliss but it seems like not even that is possible. What's left for me now? The only thing left would be escaping into asceticism but I don't know if I'd be a good ascet. I mean I really tried it all except jacking off on drugs and it was all a letdown. Not even listening to moaning women added more intensity. It's simply not intense. And sticking a finger up my ass also didn't do anything. Actually it's pathetic that I'd even try that. I'd never have done that in the past. I just feel so empty inside and I thought that I could somehow fill this void with sexual pleasures but it doesn't work and even if it did work then it also wouldn't have been a solution but only a coping mechanism.

All men have variations in their sex drive. Hormone levels don't stay the same but go up and down, partly due to internal cycles, and partly due to external stresses. It's normal to have a week or two occasionally when you just aren't interested.

dont worry Ive orgasmed in 20 seconds too so dont feel alone!! :Pyou sound like you're horny all the time! when was the last time you fooled around with a girl?

Originally Posted By: tonym

And I also think it's not fair that women can have so many Os. :frowning:
It's like women can rub their junk all day and escape into an unreal worlds of pure ecstasy while for me it's like 20 seconds of twitching down there and that's it. This is so unfair.

Boohoo... You think all guys have mind blowing multiple orgasms? Where is this fantasy world you live in? I want to go there.

I do not think guys have mind blowing orgasms this is exactly my mind! Women can get multiple Os and feel like going insane and scream and moan and for men it's totally lame and all you do is twitch a bit down there and that's it. That's so unfair. It's actually a surprise that men even want to have sex since male orgasms are so lame and unrewarding. When you eat a pizza you have pleasure for 5-10 minutes while cumming is only pleasure for 10 seconds. @ stephieI'm not horny all the time. In fact yesterday I decided to bang my rubber pussy one last time before destroying it and after I had cum once I wanted to go for a second orgasm and I couldn't even get my penor hard enough to stick it in. I really hadn't expected this. Seems like I can't even get hard enough for a second penetration only when I jack off with a firm grip I can get hard again. I'm really disappointed. Looks like I'm no sex machine after all.

I think your expectations are out of kilter with reality.

No they are not. Did you not read what ashley wrote? 20 orgasms in 1 hour?! And I bet every single one is better than my orgasms. Why do women have such a fun knob and men don't? This simply isn't fair.

Your whining is annoying.. Get over it and get in touch with reality.

Originally Posted By: sdp

Your whining is annoying.. Get over it and get in touch with reality.

I am in touch with reality, pal. And reality sucks. Women have a magic button which delivers them endless pleasures and men don't.

Well tough shit.. Deal with it. That's the way it is.. And not all women have multiples.. Some have trouble having ANY orgasm.

Originally Posted By: sdpWell tough shit.. Deal with it. That's the way it is.. And not all women have multiples.. Some have trouble having ANY orgasm. Maybe during intercourse but they can still rub their clit and this way get off. I wonder would it be possible for a man to get a clitoris transplant in order to be able to get multiple Os, too?

Yeah

Originally Posted By: sdp
Yeah
You mean it is possible? That offers some comfort. This way I can at least dream about also having such a fun button and then shooting myself into space with it.

It's done all the time.. Didn't you know that?

you want a clit transplant? sigh. I'm pretty sure that a womans clitoris has as many nerve endings as an entire schlong.

Yeah, you can get them at the clit bank.. didn't ya know?

Yeah, I actually donate my clit twice a year.. it grows back when I spread chia seeds all over my box and keep the area moist.