Fingering...

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Last night (well early this morning) my boyfriend and I were making out and he asked to be adventurist. This means either of two things: he wants to perform oral or get me off some way with his hand. Before I said it wasn't a good idea and last night I just pushed his hand away. I was still on my period and it would not have been a good idea. I'm really nervous of how messy thing would get. How do I say that I wouldn't want to kiss him after he's gone down on me? He knows I'm a "germophobe", but I'm not sure he knows to that extreme. How do I tell him that I want to make sure his hands are clean and his nails are short and filed down smooth? Ugh...I guess I should just tell him.On a positive note, I touched his bare penis for the first time! I've been wanting to do that since forever. Man, if he knew I was writing this he would probably me really mad.

Does he have a huge penis? I bet he has. Everybody has a huge penis except me. That's so typical again why can't live simply be a bit more easy?

Are you being serious?? It doesn't sound like you are. You're so random. How old are you?

25 why you asking?

His penis doesn't matter any more than yours does. Someday you will find someone who wants to play with it simply because it's attached to you.

If that's the way you feel, that's the way you feel. All you can do is explain it. It would probably be best to explain it when your not in the throws of passion, though.Outside of explaining it, if you wish to change yourself, you might try doing some research on what it is your afraid of and maybe set your fears at ease... or send them spiraling into the stratosphere.

Originally Posted By: OldFolksHis penis doesn't matter any more than yours does. Someday you will find someone who wants to play with it simply because it's attached to you. It's not just about others I also would want to be bigger even if I was alone on the planet.

You seem very, very, young.

Well I don't want dirty fingering inside my vagina, or jagged nails that cut be abrasive...and I don't like having a big mess, I usually like to clean up afterward. I think he's a bit more relaxed in that area. I don't want to get stuff all over his sheets.I'm guess I'm too nit-picky about stuff like this.

What "stuff"? Are you a squirter when you orgasm?

No, I meant stuff as in different kinds of stuff...like I'm picky about making messes and clean hands and nails.

Still don't know what "stuff" you're talking about unless you mean HIS stuff getting on the sheets.

Stuff as in a general things, subjects, topics, etc. grouped together.I don't know about other females, but if I'm turned on I can get pretty "wet" and if things are being touched/stimulated there's...I guess it would be equivalent to a guy's ejaculation.... I'm not sure if I used the right words.

Originally Posted By: TangledWebI don't know about other females, but if I'm turned on I can get pretty "wet" I like where this is going.

Like I said, if that's how you feel that how you feel all you can do is explain it. Work with him, maybe have him wash his hands prior to. That's not very romantic but if it means he's getting something on him, that's the price he has to pay. Work on your end as well, figure out a way to deal with the sheets or get over it. If it's that big a deal to you, instead of washing the sheets immediately after, tell him he has to sleep in the wet spot. As with anything, its about respecting the other persons areas of comfort and its about give and take on both peoples part. It's as important for him to respect your discomforts as it is for you to not let your germophobia get in between or hamper the relationship.

A towel does wonders.

Uggghhh...you could have kept that to yourself.

tony I really think you're younger than 25... maybe 13?

Originally Posted By: ashley69tony I really think you're younger than 25... maybe 13? Ashley Ashley, do you really think at the age of 13 I could know as much I know? You funny thing.

I can't take any of your posts seriously. you need some serious help.