wow, believe it or not, im always quoting that show 2 lol.
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Love=like? want opinions.
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and is he against that too? dont let yourself get trapped in a mental or spiritual abusive relationship! life is short, you dont get your time back at the end!
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Originally Posted By: hemlock69and is he against that too? dont let yourself get trapped in a mental or spiritual abusive relationship! life is short, you dont get your time back at the end! words i wanted to say to Jade were the same. saved me from typing lol
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hopefully she learns she can do better and get out while shes still young and doesnt wind up trapped
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sometimes, for some people in these kinds of relationships, it's just a vicious circle. I have a friend who's been trying to live this was for 10 years and she's really paying a heavy price for it.
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so any news on the bf? or former bf?
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i paid a heavy price and lost 14 years of my life....wasted it on trying to "be happy" and "make it work". :frowning: this kind of relationships dont work out well.
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i wonder about that...cuz many people wind up in such relationships thinking they will make it work and its a bond they share etc etc and dont look past that until its too late. i was same as her and it took me a lot of courage and strength to break free.
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hemlock- still with him, and he actually doesnt have a problem w/me quoting himym. not that i know of, anyway. if he does then i know theres a problem, cuz thats one of my favourite shows.actually ive been a bit worried today...i love my bf, a lot...but theres this other person...we've been friends for a long time and have a lot in common. and throughout the years ive thought that i would never ever like this person (due to circumstances), but now i almost gotta wonder. i was listening to some blink 182 today on my way to class, all the small things, actually (remember that one?) and oddly i realised two things: 1, i thought of this guy whenever i heard it and 2, i kept replaying the song. then, when i got to class and sat down for a while, my heart was still going a mile a minute. but im not good enough for him. im weird, and not even pretty, really. plus im pretty sure he sees me as a friend or a sister. so yeah. besides, i do love my bf, and its probably just a phase im going through.
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and more about the bf, i think i might have been unfair to him. its not that he doesnt do all these things, but its not ALL he does. he does a lot of good, too. today i met w/my therapist and she told me that he sounds really selfish, immature, and irresponsible. while im not sure what to do about him being "irresponsible" or "immature", i decided im gonna stop letting him act all selfish around me...or at least im gonna make things a bit more equal. from this day forward, i am NOT having sex w/him, and if we do fool around, he has to take care of me as well. (otherwise...he kinda gets distracted. but i used 2 do that 2, so im not gonna judge) sometimes i get so tired of all of this, to be honest. just all the drama. eventually it all just becomes white noise. still havent figured out if it beats silence tho
