As you've seen man it is more common than you think because we rarely ever discuss it or even own the thoughts. However there is that curiosity among us all, some of us are able to discuss it and talk about it...and some of us actually do share it with our friends....either verbally or physically. Does't make us gay, just curious and willing to experiment a bit or be totally honest about our thoughts...
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Mutual masturbation
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Me and this really close friend of mine (she's a girl) have sort of started some casual sex-type thing. One night we just decided that casually getting each other off/fucking each other wouldn't be that bad... After all, we'd been friends for so long. That night she gave me a blowjob before we went to bed... I was a little nervous, what with not used to being naked in front of her before, but I enjoyed it.
I don't know if that's the extent of the relationship you'd want to take with your friend, but if you feel comfortable with whatever you may decide to do, go right on ahead.
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yeah...cool...
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We are married couple (38-56)and since 12 years addicted to a pure mutual masturbation relationship.It is marvellous and no other joy can give more joy,if developped and trained on a tantric base.Try it,you will not be disapointed!We sometimes wonder if there are more couples doing the same way to cultivate pleasure?
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Do you do each other at the same time or yorselves?
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We never do alone,thats the deal between us:always together at the same time and in preferency with ourselfs looking or touching eachother to stimulate in various mast-technics
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mutual tantric masturbation... that's a first for me. lol. I always wanted to try tantric sex though.
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In tantric sex orgasm is always longer and more powerfull to real explosion if longly trained.You have to avoid orgasm and be always near the orgastic point so close as possible for longer time than normal.The most tantrics have intercourse to discharge the ultimate.We never have intercourse,its a tantric perversion to masturbate mutually as only but still more powerfull state of mind and trained state of body,difficult to explain to novices..More specially it is exciting if the partners adore the beauty of eachother especially the female beauty...This mutual mast can not be compaired with the simple teenager or other masturbatings.It is a culture of developpement of adult intense mature mut-mast that is like bodytraining or fitnesstraining.Once flesh and mind are addicted return to normality is no more wishfull,because of the fysical needs of the intimacy and the kicks of the soul.The greater pleasure is to stay strictly mut-mast in the relationship like a drug
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Yes, I actually really got into studying about tantric sex when I was at about the age of 15. Through books and internet research I came upon a lot of information but I don't recall finding informatoin using tantric practice through mutual masturbation. Would you say that this is your modification of tantric sex or did you hear about it elsewhere?
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In a sense it is a modification ,in an other sense tantra wants to transcent the sex into enlightment(no more need for sex),we are no saints yet so we transcent normal intercourse-need by mu-mast ,for the higher pleasure only and not for any enlightment.It is not at all in our case a vulgar occupation,it is done in the most possible beauty and with high sense of respect and adoremenrt of the partner,yet we know very well it is against nature,this knowledge already gives us the kick to be special.Avantage is not only the multiple variationpossibilities in the ritual games together,last but not least it is even a bigger garantee not to become adultery,because another could not satisfy the specialities we enjoy and discovered together for years.The tabu on mut-mast is so big that better is not to tell another what are your trained needs for explosive orgasms.
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Never thought about the advantages in that way. Though if you found a person that you COULD perform tantra with, it's most likely a person you're in love with and who is in love with you. At the same time each partner would have to possess considerable worldly knowledge and open-mind. In which case...I can't see how that partner could resort to adultery. lol.
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Exactly!
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lol. We should all be so lucky.
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I've never tried it. I'd prefer to do it with a girl, of course.
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ive have really wanted to masterbate with a friend of mine but was worried he (i am also a guy) wouldnt be interested in it but i am also worrried that if i ask him he will think i am gay any advice on how to get him to say yes and any tips on how to actually do it
thanks so much