Can you get impaled/injured during anal sex?

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I always thought that anal sex was basically safe when you take it slow and use lube. I also heard this in many documentaries about sex where they talked about anal sex.
But now I'm scared cause I read a few horror stories where people hurt their rectum through vibrators. Now I wonder how dangerous is anal sex in general?
I mean I have watched videos online where couples had anal sex and often times the males are pretty rough and they also don't take it slow but they are moving fast and inserting their penis from all kinds of directions into the rectum and the women also seems to have some discomfort.
My question is how can such a woman who is receiving anal sex basically tell if the discomfort is normal or if it's something serious? I mean is it possible that the male basically ruptures the rectum with his penis and the woman doesn't really notice it or if she notices it then it's already too late?

I also have no idea how hard it would be to damage the rectum with a penis or lets say a flexible sex toy which isn't solid. I mean how much force would this require? Would you first of all feel pain and then be able to stop right away before the rectum would really get damaged?

I hope someone here can give me some answers.

@larryz Hey Larry, Trust me. you're partner would know if they were seriously hurt while having anal sex. The key to having good enjoyable anal sex is lots of lube and patience. You could seriously hurt someone if you just shoved it in, hard and fast, balls deep and humped away at it like a rabbit. So take the time to let the person relax and get used to it being in ass before going for broke. Oh, and it's NEVER like it is in porn.. It's a completely different feel and experience than when you're having regular vaginal sex. My advice is to take the time and experiment and enjoy the experience.
I hope that helped!

Hello,
but I've also watched amateur sex videos where they had anal sex and basically it was the same as in porn. The positions are the same and the men also do the same moves and also really fast. Does this mean that this kind of anal sex where you hump like there's no tomorrow is totally dangerous and in reality you'd have to move super slow!?
I mean I've watched videos where women supposedly had anal sex for the first time and usually the guy slowly sticks it in and then the girl moans a bit and complains but after a few minutes he's basically humping her really fast already.
I dont think that they think much about the risks of injury. It would also be interesting to know if an injury can simply happen in an instant without any prior warning pain or wether you'd first feel pain and then you could still stop. If you could just go in and out and when you go back in suddenly you're ramming your dick through the wall then it would be totally dangerous cause then there would be no warning signs at all.

Hello Larryz,

Sometimes people become blind to sexual pleasure. Sex is a thing where both partners are having pleasure and fun. It becomes possible when you had a talk with your partner. So always have a talk with your partner when you are going to have anal sex with her. And also remember to try to use some sex toys before anal sex. I would recommend you use the Small Size Perfect fit Brands Butt Plug. It will smooth the anal area and make it flexible for pegging. Once you are okay with small-size then go for large-size anal Plugs. Through this approach, you and your partner will enjoy pleasurable anal sex.