My anus and groin region look ugly and I'm afraid that when I'm with a girl she'll think different of me. I'm prone to heat rashes, ingrown hairs, and chaffing (with scars left) so its left me in a mess. I'm short of being 16 years old.
Ugly looking pubic region and anus...
Go see a dermatologist and they’ll be able to fix you right up.
Have you tried using E-45 or Sudocrem?
Also try using talc in the morning and evening to help with sweating.