Well here is the situation. A good friend that i had feelings for one day told me that she cared for me and all. We took it really slowly because of an age gap and the fact that her brother and i are best friends. Our friendship grew and grew to where we could not hide feelings any more. We ended up telling family and they advised we stayed friends for now but it was hard she said she loved me and didnt care what they said. One day we had a situation arise that caused problems between her and I. We were kissing and things started to go farther. We stoped and i was upset with myself we promised things would never go beyond cuz we are Christains. We discused it and all was great she ashured me all was good and i could see it in her eyes. Then family found out we kissed and all and its gone down the drain. We are allowed to see each other but she wont pay attention to me any more or really talk. It hurts she wont tell me how she is feeling. She gives me little sings sometimes all is good like staring at me smiling and eye contact. So I dont know what to do she means the world to me do i wait it out or give up. I dont give up on the things in life that i love but her not talking to me and ignoring me seems helpless. I write letters to her she reads them but doesnt reply i dont get it. Some insight please.