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i have, well, big lips. I didnt think it was a prob until i happened to see two of my friends "area"...we were changing to go swimming and they were just standing there without a care in the world.. i could never do that! how many girls are like me? dont by shy, its all fine here. i heard lots of guys like bigger labia? I just wanted to know why.. when I look down at myself i almost start to cry... i have so many issues with my body, i really wish i didnt, does anyone know how to maybe get over some stuff? lots of girls radiate with confidence but i have never been with a guy, not one time, nothing past making out cuz of this hate for my own body and i am going on 20. i mean no one would guess because well, everything looks practically perfect when clothes are on.. got a nice shape and all that stuff, but then once clothes are off.. bam. yuck. any help? advice? anything at all would be appreciated.

Perception from yourself and perception from others are quite different. Large labia should not be regarded as ugly. A man that's worth anything wouldn't care about the size of your labia if he likes you for who you are. Your personality seems to be down to earth and that's already attractive to a lot of guys.

well lets start from the beginning, you say you look perfect with clothes on and everything so thats some self confidence! Yet somehow you turn into this ugly little creature when your clothes are off? Come on now don't be so hard on yourself, I bet your a lot better looking then you think. Every woman is far too critical of themselves I find You have to slowly become more comfortable with your body because quite frankly confidence is hot. I would take an average confident girl over a shy hot girl any day. but be careful not to cross the line and be conceited hehe As for your labia, it's all good. I personally like em all, big or small. would you hold it against a man you liked if his penis was only 5 inches or something? you don't sound at all shallow so I would guess not. Many men like larger labia's quite simply because it's more to play with! We love it all so long as it's neat and clean!try to lighten up a bit and enjoy yourself, you have absolutely nothing to be worried about!

Some guys like big lips. Plus, its not the outside of the vagina, its what's inside that counts

I've heard there is laser surgery now.

Wow, this comes up a lot in this forum. I just got done discussing this with my mom because I have the same problem, and I really want her to call this one doctor's office to find out information on labiaplasty, but she refuses to! She doesn't think I should, that I should just accept it. I know how it feels though, it's really frusturating and no matter how hard I try I can't be secure with my large labia. I've had guys make comments about "mud flap" lips before and "roast beef" lips. It's horrible how some guys talk about it, so you can never be too sure which ones are down for big pussy lips. I have a feeling I'm going to be a virgin for a while due to the fact I'm too insecure about my body. I'm just being honest about this stuff, I mean I know it might not be helping, but this is from my perspective. I can relate.

umm you've already said you weren't a virgin in previous posts, which is it?

I already told you, i tried getting with one guy, but it was under the covers and he couldn't completely get it in. I've had sex before, but like i said, i was raped so I don't consider that losing my virginity. I'm talking about having casual sex with numerous partners here when I talk about being a virgin. I had to really trust this kid to even get half naked in front of him and I backed out at the last moment. What posts did I say I wasn't a virgin? If you're so interested, why not look them up and tell me?

Amanda just got a verbal bitch smack

Hi Kimmy
Just another guy here who REALLY likes "Big Lips"...enough that I want to see if I can find a girl who would consider pumping, both nipples and pussy. Lips that hang make me beyond excited, absolutely insane horny!
I find large labia to be the sexiest thing a woman can have, especially if she happens to have the confidence to share them with me like they are the prize of the world. I have a similar experience in that I have a foreskin. Some women kind of freak out...but in my case, I can simply slide it back. Most women, though, love it!
Kimmy, don't waste the best years of your life to fear and insecurity...go have some fun!(be safe though, OK?)
Luke