Well yesterday my boyfriend and I were messing around and he was fingering me. Well, I started to realize that he didn't seem to be into it much. So, I studied his reactions when he stopped fingering me...and I found this...he kept it (his finger) as far from him as possible and wanted me to lick myself clean like always. So then I was thinking maybe its the smell, and I said "I wonder if it should smell like that" and he said "Yea...it does stink a little" I've noticed that after awhile, it can get very strong. If I were to describe a color, it starts off clear when it's wet and then turns kind of a dark yellow maybe light brown. It can get very bad if I do not shower regularly. I am 15 and sexually active with the same guy for 6 months, and we were both virgins. I had this problem before I even started to have sex. I went to a doctor and got birth control but they wouldnt do a papsmear on me because they said I wasnt sexually active ( I told them I wasnt)I also went to the doctor and got pills to treat a bacterial infection, and it didnt help. I've treated myself for yeast infections atleast 6 times, with different, and very expensive medicanes...what can I do? This is very embarressing and hard to deal with..help?
you need to go to a different doctor, preferably a female gynecologist that will understand better and you will probably feel more comfortable talking to. something is wrong and you have either been mis-diagnosed or under-treated.
i can't let one of your comments slide by:
wanted me to lick myself clean like always.
um, explain that please?!
Like when he is done fingering me, his finger is wet and he wont lick it, he likes for me to do it. I thought maybe it was a turn on or something but he obviously didnt like the smell. I have no problem doing it because im used to the smell, I've been living with it since I was about 13.
ok, i thought you meant you could lick your own vulva - and i was jealous!
really, go to another gynecologist, and go to a woman. they are so much better.
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- and i was jealous!
That made me laugh.. lol that was cute..
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Well first of all, you need to shower regularly. Take time to spread the lips and wash in there with a wash cloth. If it really bothers your bf, wash up before you have sex with him. You could also be eating the wrong foods. Eating healthy makes you're juices taste sweeter and better. If you neither of you wants to lick his finger clean, just get a towel or something to wipe it off.
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