Ya know it kinda gets me down knowing the most enjoyable way for me to get off is the least enjoyable for women. i mean honestly what good does a clit do way up there? Or shit even the G-spot, can't you only hit that doggie style? I'm not a fan of asses and would much rather be facing her when we're in the act but hell 75% + of women don't even get an orgasm during sex unless it is doggie style.I havn't really had sex with my girlfriend yet but when I do I'd like to know that she's getting just as much pleasure out of it as me, and since she won't be I'll be worrying about that the whole time anyway! How many women here have actually had an orgasm in missionary position? Or am I way off base here and the G-spot can be hit in M-position? I am pretty sure you can't. plus when ur in the act wouldn't it be difficult to play with her clit?! damn... help lol
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God is playing tricks
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you can use your finger to play (rub) her clit during missionary, you get hit the g-spot by doing it sideways (it's a little hard to explain some positions) but you just have to experiement, spooning even
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well on a pleasure scale from 1 to 10 (1 being 'meh this ain't so bad' and 10 being 'omfg thats great') how good is sex in missionary position without clit rubbing? with rubbing? just wanna gauge how much she really feels and how good I CAN make her feel.
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You know, after experimenting, you might find that you don't like missionary as much as you think. I actually think that it isn't that great for guys.Anyway, you don't need to rub her clitoris with your hand to stimulate it during missionary. It's possible to apply pressure to her clitoris with your pubic bone, particularly if her legs are up and around you. You should also shift forward---it’s difficult to explain in words… anyway, there are ways to make missionary pretty good for a woman.
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so explain some haha!
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In missionary, my girl would almost curl up and have her legs around me. At that point I'd put my knees near the sides of her butt where the back of her thighs could be resting on the front of my thighs. This way, while I'm doing my motion there will be friction on her clit. About a couple minutes after she curled up she would orgasm. I hope that explanation helps.
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Alright, I'll try my best---but I can't guarantee that this would be the best for you, it's just the best way for me during missionary. You have to angle yourself at as much of an acute angle as you can---pretty much perpendicular. Her legs should either be bent, with her feet flat against the bed, or her legs should be around your. Now, when you move, try not to lose contact between yourself and her. This is why I said "shift forward;" I meant: when you thrust, move forward against her (slide so that you're rubbing rather then just going in and out---does that make any sense?). You don't want to put so much pressure on her that she's uncomfortable, but the idea is to constantly have some amount of pressure on her clitoris. You really just need to try it yourself :grin:
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You asked how many women have had an orgasm from missionary position and I'll answer that one...For the past few months I have been able to orgasm from the missionary position (and yes, mulitiple orgasms are possible). I'm only able to because of the friction from my man's pubic bone on my clit. But, it does happen. And I never come from doggie style unless I masturbate.
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Doggy style is the only position that i CANT oragsm from,ive tried and tried, but i just cant!I have oragsmed through missonary,many times! Its not just the guy that has to work here, the woman also needs to position her hips up to where it feels best to her.She cant just lay there like a log.Also dont just thrsut in and out in and out. Grinding into her along with occsional thrusting is best. For me anyways.
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Agreed.
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yep that's the ticket. grinding, thrusting while keeping total contact....it works like a charm! i always come that way. doggy style requires me to rub my clit in order to come.
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For both my wife and me, doggie-style is the least fulfilling position--she doesn't get the clitoral stimulation she needs, and too often, my penis will pop out, leaving us fumbling to get it back inside. We've tried, and almost invariably have switched to something with less engineering required.Sex is good for me in any other position, but my wife does best in missionary or--one that hasn't even been mentioned on this thread--girl-on-top. In missionary, we take it really slowly. Entering her, and on practically every out-thrust, I'll pause with the head of my penis throbbing just inside her until she grabs my backside and pulls me back in. Sometimes, when I need to slow down myself, I'll rise up so my buttocks are on my heels, take my penis in one hand, and use just the head to masturbate her clitoris. (Sometimes that move works almost too well--she'll climax two or three times in rapid succession, then press her legs closed and wind up finishing me off with her mouth--other than 69, it's the only time she swallows my semen.) But I think her biggest orgasms happen when she's on top, doing exactly what she needs and seeing to my pleasure at the same time. She'll climb astride me, rub her pleasure islands with the head of my penis to get herself wet and hot, and only then lower herself slowly onto it. Some guys are bothered by the symbolism of the dominant woman and the passive man--in our fantasy life, that's OK for a blow job, but in intercourse, the guy's supposed to be in charge. I don't have that particular hang-up. In the first place, I don't just lie there--I move my pelvis so that I'm thrusting up as she's coming down, and I'm pulling away as she's rising up. But I love the fact that she's able to get contact where she wants it--her lips, her clitoris, her G-spot, wherever she wants--and that she still finds ways to pleasure me to the max. (There will be sudden contractions around my penis that drive me wild and severely test my powers to hold back so we can come together.) It's an almost guaranteed Big O for her, and watching her reach it makes my own orgasm way moe wet and intense. Pleasure in sex for me has always been highest when it's a two-way street.
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MmmM Doggy my favourite!! Hmmm.. i know one time i came within 10 seconds when i was on top.. it was good.. missionary isnt that good unless my legs are up on his shoulders and hes really pumping it