No... erection first and then retract. The size of the head forces the opening to stretch out as you pull back. If it were to get stuck with an erection.. you squeeze the head firmlyy to push the blood out and then quickly pull/roll it back up over the head.As far as urination goes, you can retract as far as you like.
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I'm new...questions
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Don't worry about the weird feeling - you're just not used to it. With time, you'll find it extremely pleasurable to pull your foreskin back and forth over the head. The head will likely be extremely sensitive at first - it will take time to get used to that too. As for the smegma, I'm surprised you didn't find any considering you've never pulled your foreskin back before, but consider yourself lucky - its one less thing to be concerned about washing off. Here's what smegma looks like, btw: smegma In general, as long as you can pull the foreskin back enough to fully expose the head while erect, you're fine. You can pull it back further than that, but its not necessary, although it can make cleaning under the foreskin and behind the ridge of the head easier if its pulled back further.
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Thanks againSo when you pee you dont have to pull it back at all?I don't really understand though...when you have an erection, isn't the skin supposed to be "stuck" and in place behind the head?Well yea, I mean I didnt really see any of that smegma stuff which I find weird too. There is some white stuff from time to time on the foreskin but I always thought that was just some of the tissue paper I was using, but it could have been the smegma.No, when I pulled the skin back I was flaccid and it did kinda smell but I didnt see any of that white stuff.I am not able to retract very much with an erection, though. I can open it up a little bit but that's about it. Will this come in time, or is there something I'm not doing right? Flaccid I can pull it all the way back right now but when I'm hard still little to no progress.
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In reply to:So when you pee you dont have to pull it back at all?This is up to you and what you prefer. Some guys like to pull their skin back before they pee so that drops of pee don't get under the foreskin, and they can aim better. However, some guys find that it sprays all over the place if they pee with their skin pulled back, so they pee with it forward. If drops of pee get under the foreskin, there's no problem, however it may cause it to get a bit smelly under the skin from the dried urine. In reply to:I don't really understand though...when you have an erection, isn't the skin supposed to be "stuck" and in place behind the head?No, the foreskin should never be "stuck". You should be able to pull the foreskin back and forth over the head easily and without any discomfort, while fully erect. Now, some guys have longer foreskins than others. Guys with short foreskins may find that their foreskin retracts behind the head automatically as they get erect. Guys with longer foreskins, the foreskin probably won't retract by itself when erect, but can be manually pulled back with their hand if they want to. When masturbating, most uncut guys like to slide their foreskin back and forth over the head - the process of pulling the foreskin back over the head while erect and then pushing it back over the head again is said to be very pleasurable, especially as the foreskin glides over the ridge of the head (corona). During sex, the natural action of the foreskin would be the foreskin retracts on the inward thrusts into the vagina, exposing the head when all the way in, and the foreskin pulls back over the head on the outward thrusts. Again, this gliding action should provide immense pleasure. In reply to:Well yea, I mean I didnt really see any of that smegma stuff which I find weird too. There's nothing weird about it. Some guys hardly produce any smegma for some reason, while others produce tons of it. I think a lot of uncut guys would be happy to be like you and not have any to deal with cleaning off. In reply to:No, when I pulled the skin back I was flaccid and it did kinda smell but I didnt see any of that white stuff.That smell is normal, especially given how long its been since you pulled your foreskin back, and its never been washed under there before. But you should pull it back like that everyday while in the shower, and give it a quick wash and rinse with water to keep the smell from being offensive. When girls pull your foreskin back, they don't want it to smell bad. Washing it daily under there will insure that it won't. In reply to:I am not able to retract very much with an erection, though. I can open it up a little bit but that's about it. Will this come in time, or is there something I'm not doing right? Flaccid I can pull it all the way back right now but when I'm hard still little to no progress. Well, it sounds like your foreskin opening is a bit tight, which is common for guys who haven't retracted their foreskin before. Actually, a lot of guys are much tighter than you are - at least you can pull your foreskin back when soft - some guys can't even do that. You need to work on stretching your foreskin more to make it more elastic and flexible so it can retract easily while erect. Considering you're only having problems while erect, you should try pulling your foreskin back while erect. So get erect, then pull your foreskin back as far as you can, stopping when you get a bit of pain. If it doesn't hurt, then keep pulling it back. Don't worry about it getting stuck behind the head. If it does (not likely), then all you do is squeeze the head firmly with your fingers to push the blood out of it and make it smaller, then with your other hand push your foreskin back over the ridge. If you keep doing these stretching exercises several times a day, everyday, you will get your foreskin to retract easily in a few weeks to a month. Just be patient - it can take a bit of time to accomplish sometimes.
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Thanks againI spoke with lance about this, but even when Im soft and I pull it all the way back, it gets very uncomfortable, almost like its constricting and cutting off air or something. Im not sure if that's exactly what is happening. But its almost as if the bottom of the head starts to turn a blue-ish/purple-ish colour and I can't leave the skin around there for too long.
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Are you stretching it when erect? if you are pulling back when flaccid, you are doing nothing for the stretching and you'll never get anywhere.
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Yea, Im trying it when erect alsoWill that stop it from hurting when flaccid and pulled back?
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What is it that's hurting exactly?
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Well, today I did it in the shower and it didn't seem to "hurt" like before, maybe Im getting used to it. I cant really explain it, I guess where the skin is, around the bottom of the head...feels tight when pulled back
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The tightness will eventually go away. You are expecting too much too soon. And yes if you were handling the glans with a dry hand... it will be painful or sensitive. A wet hand makes all the difference. This sensitivity will also go away with repeated exposed and contact.