I have a huge problem. i have been going out with my girl friend and have been sexually active with her for the last 2 years. i love her very much and want to spend the rest of my life with her. however i have always liked anal play. she has always thought it to be wierd but ignored it. recently i find my self more and more currious. i have been thinking about what it would be like to give head and have sex with a guy. does that make me gay. i am not attracted romanticly to guys but just currious as to what it would be like. am i gay is this normal?? please help thanks
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HELP HUGE PROBLEM
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alot of people have stated before no one is 100% straight, it is normal to be curious i think everyone is sometimes (males and females)
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Hey bud, this isn't a huge problem at all. I believe that all of us experience some sexual curiosity about being with the same sex. You're just able to recognize it and willing to be honest about it. Simply having sexual thoughts like that doesn't make you gay. And I'm one of the many guys who did some same sex experimentation while in high school. I wasn't gay then and I'm not now. Simply part of my sexual development. If you ever act on those curiosities and decide you'd like to be in a committed relationship with another guy, then you've decided that you're gay. What you describe now is simply a curiosity and shouldn't be cause for concern.
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Yea sometimes I have wondered about that too but I'm not gay because I want to have romantic or physical relationships with females and have no interest in being in any romantic relationship with another dude. I have never tried it but I have no interest to do so, so...I'm just uncomfortable with the thought of it, personallyI have never seen gay porn or anything like that, other than like a picture or two on the net, but I dont really have an interest to. I mean sometimes I see other guys and think they are good looking but I don't think that makes me gay.
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i don't have that type of problem. my problem is that i try to figure out other guys size in the locker room sometimes. i know i m not gay, in fact, my church completely dishonors it, but i still have problems with that. i mean i have no problem with male nudity b/c i seem to want to sneak a peek
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Whew, that is a huge problem. What do you think your size isn't good enough or bigger.. or you want to beat them? I never seen this kind, I think your purenudism... which is okay.. they even have made a site it has public nude.. it maybe illgal depented on the country.. plus the 18+ years thing.. but who ever cares.. i don't see it that much of a deal
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I think it's kind of normal about "sneeking a peek", I mean I would never intentionally stare at another dude's penis in the washroom or wherever, but there is that element of curiousity or mystery there, like how do I stack up in comparison?I know Im really small when flaccid so it's kind of embarassing for me...I dont really go to changerooms or anything like that since I dont go to a gym, but even in the washrooms its weird.
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i do think i m not big enuff sometimes. even though i know that growth is not done yet for me, but i do get self conscious sometimes being 16 w/ a 6" penis. i feel small(especially being a "grower"- small while flaccid) and that makes me inclined 2 "sneek a peek"