LAW: A man may not seduce a woman by lying, and claiming he will marry her.COUNTRY: USA / STATE: Mississippi CITATION: 97-29-55 Seduction of female over age of eighteen by promised or pretended marriage. ACTUAL: If any person shall obtain carnal knowledge of any woman, or female child, over the age of eighteen years, of previous chaste character, by virtue of any feigned or pretended marriage or any false or feigned promise of marriage, he shall, upon conviction, be imprisoned in the penitentiary not more than five years; but the testimony of the female seduced, alone, shall not be sufficient to warrant a conviction.This relates, in a distant kind of way.
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For $1000, would you have your bf watch you.....?
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Cenfath, it is great that you hold love and sex in such high regard and I understand and respect your beliefs. I, on the other hand, believe sex is something to be enjoyed by two or more consenting adults. If my g/f wanted to bring a third person into our bed only for a sexual experience, I would not have a problem with it. If the three of us have no problem with it, it is no one's business what we choose to do. In both of our prior lives, we had threesomes and experimented in various sexual situations.You concluded your post by saying; "I see people throw sex around like it's nothing anymore and I honestly believe that's wrong.". What is wrong with casual sex? If three adults consent to having sex whom should be the judge and say it is wrong? To abuse a child is wrong. To abuse a spouse is wrong. To lie, cheat and deceive someone is wrong.
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Everything is wrong with it. It doesn't hold anything of worth. It's just, "hey let's fuck", and that's not okay with me. Having the background that I have, and holding the morals, belief in God do, I don't believe sex was created for people to just screw around. What's the point? Sex is enjoyable with someone you love. But casual sex to me is just plain and unfulfilling.
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"My b/f is divorced, has two kids, and he and I have a pretty big age gap but you know something? It doesn't bother me and it doesn't bother him. So why it bothers other people I don't understand because they're not in the room sleeping with us. My own opinion is "get over it. It's not your life. I do what I want because I'm an adult."The above is a copy & paste of your posting regarding an age difference in a relationship. Based on the above; if three people who wish to get together for consensual sex, and it does not bother neither of them, and you are not in the room, why does it bother you and make it so wrong? It's not your life. They do what they want because they are adults. You mention morals and belief in God. Does your God approve of divorce? Does your God approve of pre-marital sex?Although I do not prescribe to your beliefs, I do understand them. I do not judge it right or wrong, only that it is different to mine.
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FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I just scaned the posts and here is my view on alternative lifestyles and the love vs sex arguement. I do believe that a relationship can work even when a couple are swingers. Love and Sex are 2 different things. Sex can be used to show up most sign of love, but it doesn't have to necessarily. Sex can just be sex, and the same act can mean different things at different times and different people. Although I would not enjoy seeing my partner fucking some guy or girl, I can understand how it can work out. You really just have to be aware and fullfiled in life and confident in the love presented to you. If a guy is like you bore me in bed I need something more, now that is a different story. I think being a swinger should be for fun and excitement but not for fullfilment, because that definatly does mean something is wrong there. If the swinging were to stop and you only have your original partner and you were just as content I dont see a problem with the acts that were committed as long as both partner is okay with it. We all have different morals and values and I think we all need to respect that even if its something you think is discusting or immoral.
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To answer your questions:1)Does God approve of divorce? No he does not. However, in the Bible it states that if a believer should marry a non-believer they (the believer) must not divorce them (the non-believer). However, if the non-believer should choose to leave then they may. And for the record, his wife filed for divorce, and no, she doesn't believe in God.2) Does God approve of pre-marital sex? No he does not. Which is why I'm not having sex with my boyfriend. I've had sex once. The biggest mistake of my life. I thought I loved him and he had other plans. I vowed never to have sex again until I was married and here I am being true to my vow. It's not impossible to sleep in the same room, in the same bed with someone and not have sex. Thank you very much.And also, if you would have bothered to read my previous posts you would have read that if other people want to do that, that's fine with them and I don't care. I just happen to think it's wrong to have sex with people you have no feelings for other than as a "sex toy". You're trying to bait me with this and you don't have a leg to stand on. I've made my reasons very clear why I don't like it and why I think it's wrong. I've also said previously as I'm saying now if you're a "grown-up" you're going to do what you want and I don't care what you do behind closed doors. But my opinion (of having casual sex with someone while your partner looks on) of it is that it's wrong.
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To add to my above statement, since I can no longer edit my post, I would like to say that using my situation with my boyfriend and the question you asked that just assumed I was having sex with him was found quite out of line.
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I totally agree with Cenfath on all the things she has said. Sex should show your love for you partner. IMO, "swinger" couples have a false sense of fulfillment and don't even know it.
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i agree with cenfath also, minus anything that has to do with religion.
