Well it was our first time together the other day. Not my first but her first. And from other people i have heard that for women it only hurts for a few seconds. But with her it hurt her the whole time. I'm thinking it will take time. but its just weird. Opinions?
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First time. PAIN!
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It's normal for her to have a feeling of pain and uncomfort the first time. It's not weird. The more she does it, the less it will hurt and be uncomfortable and the more pleasurable it gets. For her sake, take it slow if you two decide to have sex again and don't do anything she doesn't want to.
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yes, it hurts. I was in so much pain I actually decided to never have sex again! (course that didn't last :smirk:) and that guy was pretty small, too!
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Its really common... my first time, it hurt the whole way through, but not as bad as the first minutes.. it was agony, even though he was So gentle and SO slow... it took a few times before it got betterdont worry, just go slow and make sure you let her know its ok if she needs to slow down, not go as deep etcetera
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ok a hypathitical question here, um not not shur how to question it though. lets say a virgin girl tryes sex with a guy and he's not a virgin. he don't want to hurt her but she's really hurting. he's going slow and being as easy and gental but she's still hurting . so much she tells him to stop. so he does. how can i guy .. i mean.. what can he do? he don't like the idia of hurting his girlfriend.
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start with something smaller. Increase size very slowly until she's comfortable with the guy's penis size.
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try experimenting with fingering first. When she can take two or three fingers, she'll be ready for his penis again.
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my first was just 2 days ago! i'm still thrilled...i know that's weird, i mean sex is kinda overrated, but just being that close to the man i love was wonderful...sighs...anyways, back to the post...it was incredibly painful at first but i didnt want my boyfriend to stop so we just took it nice and slow till the pain started to go away (that only took a few minutes) also, it hurt less when he was only halfway inside me so slow & not too deep must do the trick
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i doont think it would hurt that bad if a girl used a dildo then lost her viginity would it ? did u know that your officially not a virgin if youve had penis=vagina sex but if youve had anal or oral your still considered a virgin
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well, duh.
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A Bisexual friend of mine once referred to it as getting his BV card and his GV card punched (Boy Virginity and Girl, well, you get the idea).