diver you welcome anytime.....well n update i went on my commuity support meeting this week (friday) it was horrible everyone was much older than me and was married n owned there house when they asked me how old i was n how old baby was they just slowly began to ignore me like i wasnt there. Any input i put in was ignored but when others said the same input as i did everyone praised them and said it was a good idea i cant believe how ignarnat people can be. I try to present myself well so i dont have people acying like that towards me but they still do.
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Lonley and un heard
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babe... lol you forgot to log inbut anyways lolhave you thought that it's maybe the way you put yourself across?? I mean, I know it's a effort (I do it all the time) but if you go in all happy and bubbly people "usually" take more notice. Assertive is the word I was looking for
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i used to come across all bubble and stuff but now i dont bother i just try and be nice and happy not too over the top thats y i cant understand why people have to be so ingnarnt they dont talk to me enough to get to know me..i logged in now lol
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I know it's hard, but once you've "put yourself across" people will notice you. I know it's horrible to say, but if you want to make "friends" a bit of lying about your feels will help. I know it's easier said than done... hell I know I'm not out of my depression, but I do honestly feel a hell of a lot better, and I know you will to.This is going to sound silly, but have you thought about taking up a new hobby? Something like judo, where you’re interacting with people and make friends that way. I've found it works, so why not try that course of action.And babe, next time you think you’re going to do something, phone someone, what about the Samaritans, or even NHS direct can help. You’ve got my number and can use it at anytime... it hurts me more when people feel they can't come to me... I know the same is likewise for others.
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you know im so glad i found this site it has opened my mind and give me ahell of alot of support diver deadinsde cr eddie fab no1 hels and the rest of u if i wrote u all in it would go one forever. thanks all of you for everything i dont honestly know what i would do with out the friends i have on here you lot mean the world to me diver your a star if i was near to doing something sorry but id have to call you honey. I feel so drained and low right now i think a nice hot bath would do the trick thanks divver and all of u for everything really thankyou this is what i really need right now thanks again.
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you know, 4-5 months ago I didn't honestly think I could live another day on this earth, yeah with the support from friends in the real and online, I've managed to pull thought the most of it. and you know, you've only got to say the word and I'll be in my van and heading up your way if you needed someone to talk to that much. But I've managed to pull though the worst of it, and this time around has been the worst. I read some of the posts I made during the early months and I'm like "I really can't remember any of this stuff".I did it babe, and I know you can too.
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ur just get diver you honeslty truley are a star
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Hi Helms...
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same goes for you kerrie! you've really helped me and cheered me up too...so thanks alot (and the rest of u too)
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yeah, kerrie, u r a star, have helped me when i needed it most. a true friend and are one in a million hun.