I'm sure most everyone feels they got the shaft in some way. I'm secure with my body and feel blessed in that department. I've always had an athletic build, and the ladies like the member. It could be a lil thicker, but no complaints so far.I stutter, and that's a pain in the ass! When I'm excited or nervous it gets 10x worse. Most people have no idea what it's like not to be able to get a complete sentence out without messing something up or not being able to get a word out. Less than 1% of the population of people stutter, and although it's a handicap just like anything else nobody sees it as that. I coulda took higher-paying jobs when I worked in the gym, but I didnt becuase I knew I would have to do a lot of public relations with talking.So yeah, find the good in what you have bro. I stutter. I cant help that. But I was blessed with good genes & muscular build. I use my body to overshadow my speech. You gotta have something you like about yourself, use it .