hey people, well i have a problem..ever since i came off my holiday from england my gf and me have been acting really wierd..like constant fighting and stupid agruments. We got over that so i fort.. im very depressed i live in South florida and i miss all my best mates they all want me bk and everything and my gf and I went out to dinner + my sister cause she was upset cause her bf was bein a wank. anyhoo we was in the car and my gf kept ignoring me.. we got to the place to eat and iwas still bein ignored..all night i fort a month ago i was happy and havin fun.. but since i got back 3 weeks ago..i havnt been happy..i been depressed..endless stupid fights..then last night it was 3 weeks ago i was out with my best mates havin a good time...then i was quite..and she walked away ..but i was with her in a music store i was readin the back of the cd and i turn around and shes gone.. i meet her 1hr later and shes with this boy i kno he comes up to me and says "WTF u think this is a joke.. " i push him and go to hit him but i stoped else ill get deported..and i walk away and hes like i was jokin man ..chill..anyhooo..then shes upset..then we sort it out..then 2nite we was talkin. and she said that the boy i almost got in a fight with..(hes in her math class) she said he has a really good body and i asked her if she cheaked him out she said yes..then asked if she had fantasys about him and she didnt answer and we sat silence i asked again she said nuffin. for like 5mins. i took this as a yes..then she said im a fuckin idoiot and then i hung up..i dunno i dont really look at ppl sexualy as much as shes all i ever wanted shes really hot, and great personality. i dont think.."o shes hot ill shag her.." im not like that im, honest, kinda, caring and i never cheated on her in 9months and im 16.. im upset and i think this might be it cause she kept sayain shes had enough, yesterday wen we were fighting.. can i have some help?
Theres not much I can say. Maybe she's just confused or going through things that she's made herself distant. Or she's trying to get you to break up or get the nerve to break up. From what your saying the relationship seems like it's going to end soon. And it seems like youd be happy if you didn't have to worry about the relationship.
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In my point of view, she doesn't love you anymore. She met a guy, and she's having temptations/lust for him. I have been in that position where my boyfriend just seemed like..nothing to me(this was just how I felt not how she would) but uhm...you really can't work this out. Its not whats going on between you and her, its her and her mind.
Maybe she lost interest in you, I have done that and I start ignoring them, getting mad and not being with them as much as I can because I was in love with my "bf's"(now ex) friend. I broke up with my bf and then went out with his friend.
But beside that. All I gotta say in my opinion she doesn't value you no more, a second linger with her is second wasted...she doesn't love you. She has hots for the guy, no doubt in my mind. Just break it off, it'll hurt, it'll be hard but in my mind its the answer.
i dont think she really like likes him but she always says i dont love her and that i dont think about what i do for her..i really think u 2 are right and that i think it is the end..it really does rip me apart to think this as i do have a bad social anxiety problem..and that she helped me with it i just hope i can find someone before my problem becomes really bad..