hey ladies. im asking you this and not the guys because you probably know the most about your clits! lol. anyways, im a male and im kinda having trouble locating my gfs clit with my fingers. i think ive arroused it a few times but am not positive as the urethra is right there too isnt it? so couldnt the 2 feel a little similar? is there any easy landmarks to locate it? and once i do, how should i arrouse it properly with my finger (rough, soft, etc). thanks girls, and plz dont ask me to ask my gf where it is cuz i dont wanna sound like a fuken idiot lol. thanks.
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Locating the clit
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you shouldn't feel like an idiot asking her. I say this because I am a 21 yr old woman and I don't even truly know how to find my own clit. Heck, I didn't even know what it was until a year ago. There are no stupid questions, my friend.
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Actually, you may be better off asking the guys about this... but since you insist asking women, oh well.
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Honestly, its not always the clit that arouses the girl. Most girls are different you just have to find it and ask her what she likes.(You do not necessarly have to ask where her clit is) The reason is because somtimes we are embarrased to ask you guys to try different things depending on the relationship. So she might not tell you unless you ask. On another note, if you are fingering her do not rub against her urethra, it hurts its annoying and is easly a big turn off.
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Follow the line of the folds of the inner labia to where they meet at the top, the clit is located beneath the folds at the top.
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hmm im not totally positive myself what it is
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sdp is right, the inner fold of the labia hides the clit under the skin, it is a little red nub. Never touch it when your fingers are not wet because it very sensitive. It feels like a little ball when playing with her labia, just pull back the labia and gently play with it. This works best on a women who's labia is not tucked in, when it is tucked in it is harder to find, but the inner labia leads straight up to it. It is not going to be directly at the center of where the labia lips connect, but close enough to see.
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"and plz dont ask me to ask my gf where it is cuz i dont wanna sound like a fuken idiot lol. thanks. "Too Late....