Masturbation

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I dont know why I feel guity maybe because I never wanted to "Masturbate" but I didnt know I was acutally masterbating untill I found out on here.

Pleasuring yourself is masturbating, no matter how you do it. But it's natural, compeltely normal, and a great way to get to know your own body.

Your body isn't something you should be ashamed of. You should be proud of it and not feel bad about wanting to explore it!

Keep going. There's nothing wrong with masturbating. It's a natural thing to do.

However, you should find out exactly the reason why it makes you feel guilty. Because it's "weird" doesn't mean much. Did you have adults tell you that touching yourself was bad or something of the sort?

No one said it was bad, but mainly becuase I dont think any of my friends do it even thought they might.

Your friends are teenagers, right? I'm going to bet all the gold in the world that they masturbate too. Even if they say they don't.
But even if they really don't, who the hell cares? Why does them not masturbating interfere with what you do in private? They don't have to know and why should they know?

Ok thank You sooo much for the advice =))

Ok but wait me and "girl" freind has had dry sexy before so can u consider her masterbating to since she was pleasured too?

I don't understand.By "dry sexy" you mean dry sex, right? By the definition that I know, dry sex is when two partners simulate sex without having no penetration.

yes sorry dry sex is what i ment but my question was can you say she masterbated to since we were both plesaured?

You had it with her?In that case I'd say no, she wasnt masturbating, but in some terms you could say you were masturbating eachother..? Someone help me on that.Also, if you guys have had dry sex with eachother, it's obvious that the subject of masturbation shouldnt be too awkward for you guys. She probably does, and even if she doesn't she won't care.

oo okk this has been such a big help thank you guys sooo very much

I suppose it depends on what you did (I'm going to assume you and her were grinding each other Correct me if I'm wrong). But then again, the idea of dry sex is to simulate sex without bare genital contact. So, in that case, I would say yes, assuming the both of you had clothes or panties on.If the both of you were naked and your genitals touched, it wasn't dry sex nor masturbation.

ooo ok gotchaa but if our genitals did touch (which they didnt) wat would that be called?

That would just be sex.. not vaginal intercourse, mind you. I believe the proper term is 'tribadism'.

You know, I'm confused. Forgive me for sounding indecent, but what did you do exactly?If your genitals touched bare, I'd say sex (don't know if there's a different word to describe lesbian sex).

ooo okk i always wonderd what that was called=)

If your genitals did not touch, then you did not have sex of any kind. So, what exactly did you do?? I'm confused here.

You were right we had our clothes on and we were grinding.

Haha Star, they were grinding with clothes on. She was asking what it would be without clothes - Tribadism.

I know, but she also said no genital touching/rubbing. So, I was left in the dark there. Nothing confuses me more than when people give short responses and I have to assume things. But it looks like she did have dry sex after all. Therefore, I say mutual masturbation.