Alright. The first time I was fingered it was painful, then I had sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago for the first time and it was painful. Then, just last weekend I got fingered and it was still painful. I mean what the hell is going on why does it still hurt? I can't enjoy this stuff. I would have him like eat me out, but I have fat inner lips that he probaly will not like, but to tell you the truth, I kind of like them now :] espeically when i'm completely shaved, they're cute. ANYWAYS. Has this happened to anyone else? When did it STOP hurting?
Fingered & had sex, still pain.
That's what happens whenyuor bf doesn't get you warmed up.
Everything looks different at 186mph!
well how many times u had sex/been fingered??? sex stopped hurtin me after about 5 times, and fingering only hurt me the first time
If your wet enough, fingering shouldn't hurt at all....or maybe you a little tense expecting it to hurt and thats why it is doing cos your tense and not enjoying it as much as you would if you weren't worried.....next time get him to lube his fingers or something, and you will enjoy it, and not worry so much next time ...........(did any of that make sense - i don't think i have had enough coffee yet this morning sigh )
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin
alot of it is just your mentality. when you think of sex or being fingered you remember the pain and your vagina tenses like crazy! just relax and make sure the boy warms you up a bit a little lube never hurt any one!Ash