Ok first off i dont think im that attractive or anything but hot girls always like me. And when they get all over me i get nervous as hell its even hard for me to look them in the eyes. I have no problems hanging out with ugly chicks so its not like im real shy or anything. I think i get nervous because my chest is real fucked up It kinda points in and the bottom of my ribs poke out... I dont know what im trying to say i just had to say somthing so i could feel better about it
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I suck with girls
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No i know EXACTLY what your talkin about...there was a kid in my high school like that, and he was popular
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Yeah, a friend of mine is like that, its like the chest is sorta caved in or something. Its fine, and as said, if you've got hot girls all over you then you don't have a problem!
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I had the exact same thing before I met my girlfreind who by the way is really hot, but she helped me come more outgoing around her and her freinds who are all really pretty. you just have to have confidence with yourself it's a major turn on for girls. and about that chest thing don't worry about it cause obviously the girls aren't.
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It`s not the looks that count
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It`s not the looks that matter
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i didnt say it was
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He did....... twice laffin
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I tend to be self-conscious. The result is nervousness, especially around someone I like a lot. So my goal becomes: forget about myself.I tend to be afraid to let a person see the real me. Fear of rejection, with a capital F. So I need a lot of nurture. Loving nurture can't hurt ya.I tend to put myself down. That's what I got used to. Now it's what I need, so I think. So I catch myself in this stinkin thinkin and hold my shoulders lovingly instead.I tend to be afraid of the real me. So I remember that God made me and God don't make no junk.For a more entertaining approach, enjoy my free eBook at-http://baddadraddad.topcities.com/
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Awe...We all are a little self concious. What worked for me, is that I could look around, and see things in other people that were similar to me, and no one was making fun of them. I guess that gave me courage to just "get in there" as time went on, I got alot more courage, and became less and less self concious. This is me...like it or lump it, or leave it...I only have to die with me..LOL
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Awe the poor baby gets all of the hot chicks but is embrassed by his chest. I have the exact same thing as you but i don't care. Try building up your chest, it kind of minimizes the look of it if it really bothers you. Personally I have problems breaking the ice when it comes to girls and when I do I always forget there names so I get so embrassed that I don't talk to them anymore. But that's just me.
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Right on, PC!
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I know what you mean about being normal around so-so looking chicks and then turning into frankenstein around anyone hot "you...friend...."If you've got the hot chicks all over you you're one step ahead of me, though. Just treat it like it doesn't matter or that they're one of the so-so girls.
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What do you recomend for building up my chest? Without having to goto a gym.
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Beer! Seriously, is there anybody who hasn't felt defective? Quit hiding behind perceived defects. Dare to love yourself. Stand tall in the face of embarrassment. Let people see the real you, not just the chest you hide behind. You can do it!
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pushups are the best possible thing you can do to build up your chest without hitting the gym. but they are right, everyone has something about themselves they don't like. the trick is not letting it bother you. My biggest problem I have found is that I'm more outgoing depending on the people I'm around. I can be with one group of friends and see no female attention, but when I'm with another I get all the attention.