Cheating men!!!!

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In reply to:SUM BODY NEBIDY PLZ TELL ME "WHY DO MEN CHEAT?"Same reason women cheat: it's human (and animal) nature.

Men and women cheat for different reasons. Women cheat because they're bored, not getting the attention they need, etc. It's an emotional thing. Men cheat because they think they can get away with. It has nothing to do with them being "bored" in a relationship. Men can separate sex from love. They can be in a great relationship and still cheat because they could get away with it. Men are simple creatures.

In reply to: It has nothing to do with them being "bored" in a relationship. I would venture to say that your statement is quite wrong. There are many many reasons a person cheats. Being bored of a relationship is one of them even for guys.

Men are simple. Women are dumb

Grow up

Your kidding me right? my mother cheated on my dad cause she had nothing else to do. how can you honestly generalize people like that?

I think your bringing in a lot of your prejudice on "how men are" and "how women are". What you say may even be true, but biology has a lot to do with it.The only thing that seems to reduce cheating in a society are severe sanctions against it (i.e., stoning women to death; men generally seem to get away with it). Yet even then people still cheat.

Men AND women cheat for lots of reasons:1) Because they can and they can get away with it.2) They were "born" to seek multiple partners. Not necessarily born but for some reason there are people who just seek multiple partners.3) Not in love with their current partner and don't know how to break it off so in the meantime they're off seeing someone else and hoping you'll break up with them. (dumbest thing I've ever heard of)4) Something's missing in the current relationship and they're seeking it elsewhere whether it's just physical intimacy or emotional intimacy.That's all I've got at the moment. If anything else pops in my head, I'll let you know.

I'm being dead serious and you obviously didn't read my post right. If your mom cheated on your father, it is because she wasn't getting the emotional aspect from your father. This is not about gerneralization. So you know, my father cheated on my mom for three years. The only reason we found out was because the mistress called my mom and told her about the affair. My mom ask my dad if she did something wrong and he told her no. Do you see why I feel the I do? I havent met a man who has proven me wrong. All the men that have come into my life have tried to cheat on their girlfriends with me. So do you see where Im coming from?

Thank You all for all your help!!!!!!

Thats not true, my dad was devoted to my mother and did everything he could to make her happy, and it litterally crushed him when he found out. She had no reason except boredom cause she never had a job, never anything to do and that was her way of getting her kicks. and you have no right to generalize things like that.

Just becasue your mother didn't do anything "wrong", doesn't mean that he, at some point, stopped caring for her. Your idea that men cheat "just becasue they can" is silly.

MizzDakota you should date me then.I was voted most likely NOT to cheat on their gf in high school. I wouldnt dare cheat on my gf if I had one. I dunno what she'd be capable of.

Humans are hardwired to do a lot of things, like cheat, that might be considered uncivilized. This is scientifically supportable. But humans have the intelligence to overcome their instinctual drives; even if they could legally get away with it, most people wouldn't randomly kill strangers (I hope).

Probably for most people, not cheating (if the opportunity presents itself) is a bit of a battle against their nature. I think the statistics show that the battle more often than not is lost.

From the statistics I've seen, the rate of cheating on spouses is roughly the same here as it is in France, but society's attitudes are different. Cheating is less likely to lead to divorce in France. In fact, at Francois Mitterand (former president of France)'s funeral, his mistress was in attendance, along with his wife, and no one seemed to have a problem with it.

According to statistics, there's a pretty good chance that your significant other will stray at some point.

In reply to:According to statistics, there's a pretty good chance that your significant other will stray at some point. The BITCH!!!... I'm going home to slap her around some before she gets any ideas.

No, when I said "your", I didn't mean your, because your wife is a fine woman. It's those other woman...some of whom might be interested in you. I've had a bunch of occasions where a woman in a relationship would come on to me (my friends find it amusing), and the general (ostensible) reason was that they were angry at their SO. But there was always more to it than that.

Other women?????? Hmmmmm.. I'm intrigued.

Dont know much about cheating, but hey...Well..I know the girl I was with a month ago, she did "cheat" if You can say it this way, her actual boyfriend, But this wasnt really that kind of a situation. We were emotionally very close with Her (something yes She wasnt with Her boyfriend), but I dont really want to think of that as Her cheating.Nevertheless, I dont believe in cheating that exists in Love. I know there have been lover-couples that have had cheating incidents because of one mistake or another, but usually cheating is more common among relationships that arent very deep, or that only have "one-way-love".Theres also this thing like "sex-buddy", that I know exists in real life quite comfortably. In university one of my girl-friends has a guy She always makes out with at each party. Her actual boyfriend is in Her hometwon and isnt with Her during those parties.But as far as cheating goes, its both ways. Men dont cheat more than women. It depends on the person and their lifestyle, personality, even principles that can resist the urge or whatever.Im against cheating though, even if the couple isnt really "in love" and just enjoy their relationship the way it is. One moment or another one of them wil get hurt.But I got to say again, and again, and again that people are different.For me though, cheating is out.

In reply to: Same reason women do..don't act like it's ONLY men that cheat. New studies suggest that women are capable and quite possibly do cheat twice as much as men. True Dat!

Well unlike most women I don't cheat cuzz I don't have the time and I feel like if it's not workin den we shouldn't b 2 gether in my eyes!!