~*~Question for the guys~*~

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Ok, Im not reading though this thread becuase it just seems like some huge stupid arguement over nothing. Grow up. A lot of girls have this misconception that the only thing guys think about is how good a girl looks like. Not true (Although you do get quite a lot of shitheads who think thats the only thing that matters). I quote from "Why men dont listen and women cant read maps" (Alan and Barbara pease):"C -What men look for:PersonalityGood LooksBrainsHumourGood BodyD- What women think men look for:Good LooksGood BodyBreastsBumPersonality.blah blah blah... List D is what a man looks for when he firsts meets a woman, but list C is really what he looks for long term."Yes, men do think about sexaulity every 7 seconds. But, sorry Jpfan, were programmed to. Telling a man not to think about sex is like telling small girls not to like pink. The human race is programmed that way to survive. Get to know a nice guy and dont give him what he wants sex wise straight away- See if he wants you for your body or who you are and see if he stays with you for a month or so without anyhting sexual. If he does, go for it, indulge him becuase he likes you as a person rather than an object.

u know not all guys think about sex all the time so u really need to grow up

i hate pink.... rotfl

I dont think about it every 7 seconds. I dont actually think about it that often. Maybe 7 times a day. Thats more accurate for me :confused:

why are you guys getting so worked up and angry about. you're changing what i said into something i didnt. i could have sworn i said no t all boys think about it. ok here it is again NOT ALL BOYS. get it? i hope so. i asked a simple question for my sake and the sake of those around me not a big rebellion. sorry i asked for those who take this so offensivley but you're not the ones going through it. and whats up with this whole "grow up" thing? shouldn't you grow up for saying the same word all the time? does it make you feel better? i take back the whole thing i said. so please calm down.

Wtf? I tried to help. I went and got a f***ing book, that I knew might help, and qouted from it for you. I dont want people to argue. Argueing on a forum for medical issues etc doesnt help. I told you lot ot grow up so you would stop argueing and answer the fething question. Its been proved that men think about sexuality every seven seconds, Note SEXUALITY not SEX. Most of the time you dont even realise it. Your not even making much sense to me. Go find somone else to shout at for no reason.

I'm not sure what all the hostility is about (especially from Java_Addict); JapanFan14 asks a reasonable question, at least as I remember adolescence.When a boy hits puberty, his body is flooded with testosterone, while his brain is not fully mature. The idea of being civilized is that we can overcome (or supress) our base instincts, but it's not easy for an adolescent.Fundie warning: read at your own peril.In prehistoric times, adolescence was breeding time, since the human lifespan was pretty short. Adolescents were looking for a mate with whom to have sex, and thus make babies. Either that inherent behavior is too stubborn to evolve away easily, or it has been way too short a time since we've become "civilized" for that to have happened.End of science/religion clash.

um Goat... I wasn't talking about you and I wasn't yelling sorry if it seemed like that and thank you for your advice it helped alot. So, it's ok. No reason to curse. And Java addict are you a boy you seem like it (no offense) but you're acting like you are a boy and are offended by this. Who knows maybe you had sex with alot of boys and you think its ok. Could be anyones guess. If I offended any guys out there I'm sorry. It was a simple question and I now realize not to bring it up with you anymore. Hug hug kiss kiss

And Java addict are you a boy you seem like it (no offense) but you're acting like you are a boy and are offended by this. Who knows maybe you had sex with alot of boys and you think its ok. Could be anyones guess.So, Im either a guy or a slut? Thank you. I had backed off and left this thread alone, but since im a boy or a slut, i think ill comment again. Im a 19 yearold college student, i am female and jewish. I have only slept with 2 guys in my existance, and lots my virginity at 17. It would call that pretty non slutty, but her thats just me...

I'm a man and I don't think about sex all the time. Most guys do, but there are some guys out there who do not. Don't get me wrong i do alot. But I realize there are better things out there than simply sex

well it's true not all guys think about sex. and you guys are being kinda harsh towards her. but Japanchick if you have guys saying that to you tell them off. I have had guys come up to me and say worse things but I sorta play around with it and say to bad you ain't ever gonna get it. So don't worry there is still someone out there for you who's not a sex addict :grin:

I'm a manHow about when you were a teen?

what do you mean SteveA

Hey,Although sex does cross my mind a lot, most of the time it's not what I'm aiming for completely. I mean humans are made to be sexual creatures and that's cool.I think the problem you're experiencing is you're surrounded by jerk offs. These are the guys who couldn't get laid as prison bitches and direct their sexual frustration at you.Although most guys act like idiots at least some of the time, most don't act like the ones you described.At least you recognize trash when you see it, right? Makes it all the easier to notice a decent guy

In reply to: Is there anything else you think about besides sex? MOTOCROSS!!!!!!!! Skimming!!!!!!!!!! I need to go pee. wut time is Paul getting off from work, when is dad getting home with food, wut is he cringing home to eat, i'm hungry..i'm hungry. i'm hungry..... and a lot of other stuff that has nothing to do with sex! did I say motocross!

what do you mean SteveAI don't know how old cassiageo is, but I know what I thought about all the time when I was a teen, and it wasn't short-term interest rates.

Must be large and in charge I take it.

i think about sex nearly all the time, but i do no girls hve feelings 2. i wudnt completely talk about sex to a girl in case it put her off,ya no?

I know what you mean. I think about sex quite alot... but then again so does my boyfriend, so its not really a problem. I think talking about sex/mentioning it continually with some one who you aren't totally comfortably with yet is slightly off putting yeah. It's always baffled me this subject...why guys are so much more sexually orientated then women.

that's a stereotype question.. you can't regard a sex group as being this or that..What if i say...Why do girls like bad boys? and then you regret choosing him over the good guy. Seriously, why do you girls do that? i know lots of them from experience...Some even end up getting kids from them..I saw a TV trial case where this chubby girl just threw herself at him after the 1st date. Unfortunately, she got pregnant. And you know the end, he left......