alright, ever since my last bf, I haven't been able to find anyone worth dating. I mean I had 3 guys in mind, but I haven't really hung out with them yet. The first guy, Ryan I met on xanga where he commented on my site when he saw my comment on his friend's site. Well I found out he graduated from my school last year and he lives really close to school. He knows a lot of the same people I do, and we have good conversations about deep topics and we share the same values, but I'm starting to get the vibe that all he cares about is himself and how he's in the military. If we're talking, he constantly changes the subject back to himself and what he's doing in the military. It's quite annoying, and I hate how he brags about the amazing shit he does. I'm not impressed anymore, I'm intimidated and think maybe he thinks he's better than he actually is. I've asked around about him, and most of peoples' opinions weren't good, like how he's a bad kisser and that he's weird. So, onto guy #2. John and I have hung out before, but while double dating b.c he was dating my friend at the time while I was dating his friend. Well John has been calling me lately, wanting to hang out, and he's a great conversationalist, like he's polite and apologizes when interrupting me. He's sweet, and laid back, but I'm just not attracted to him. He's a lil' goofy...and it's just not there. I always think in terms of how our sex would be, and I can't see us getting to that, b/c, well I heard he's bad. So, guy #3. Zach, who I also met on Xanga, lives in Reading which isn't too far away from me, and has a child. He's incredibly intelligent and deep, and he's so good looking. He's the type of guy I could see myself with. However, he thrives on getting girls' attention by playing mr. sensitive. Not only that, but him and my friend Jayne started talking to one another, and he absolutely adores her. So that's out. Wtf...why does nothing work for me? I try not to be picky, but there's always something wrong with a guy. What s hould I do?
Nothing seems to work for me
People come, people go.
Firstly whats the big rush to get a guy?
my opinion on the guys would be - Ryan, probably is self centred, either that of has a lack of self confidence and is trying to make himself something he isn't, and hes steering the conversation to himself so he can try and convince you how fab he is!
John - well he seems a good friend, but your not attracted to him sexually, so for you hes obviously out.
Zach - well if he has a son then there will be things about your relationship that are hard, cos he SHOULD put his son first!
Just a few things tho, you only mentioned 'seeing yourself with' a good looking guy, you listen too much to what other people say, and I think its shitty that you judge the guys if you have heard that they are bad-kissers or bad in bed - you sound like a guy!!!!!!!!
I think your looking too hard, and pre-judging people and thats them out of luck before you have really ever got to know any of them.....
I may be being harsh, but I can only go by your post, but you see to be too picky and too judgemental!
Get a taste of Old Time Religion..........lick a witch grin<br />
hey, i'm an attractive girl and i want someone to be my equal. I don't completely take what others say into consideration, but it helps because I like knowing what I'm getting myself into. And yes, intimacy is really important to me and I need certain things to please me. Sure I'm picky, but what's wrong with having certain standards? I won't be happy otherwise.
People come, people go.