I can't live without her

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I think you should show this girl Lucy how you feel instead of telling her. But if she still doesn't want you after that then you should just move on and think about her happiness and not just yours!!!

...so how do you recomend i show her? remember i gotta be careful here.. seing as her boyfriend is living here too... as i mentioned, her birthday is coming up and seeing as i'm a pretty good listener, i know a couple things she would really like, and that probably would show that i listen to her and care... they are not ridiculously "romantic" presents or anything.. a specific t-shairt and book, which i know she would really like..but what else could i do to show her how i feel?

i must say, if u def cant live without her , u have to tell her how u feel about her, u have to stand on ur knees and tell her how u feel about her, tell her that u love her, not just," oh, i guess, we should be like a couple or something" , i know i missed my chance and even tho i got over it eventauly, i still sometimes regret for not expressing my true feelings

...well... i think i have done all i can.. and to no good at all... it's at the point now where i can't talk to her anymore, and everytime i see her with her boyfriend (which is pretty much every day) i just feel a mixture of sadness and agression...i don't know what to do now... i still feel like i'm in love with her, but she causes me so much pain.. maybe it will all be better once i no longer live with her, but i still think i will just miss her like hell and still feel like shit even then...so as a bitter man, i just want to give advice to anyone who is thinking about getting involved with a friend or someone you live with: just don't.. it will save you from a lot of pain.

Well, I feel really bad for you. You might hate me for this, but you also have to think about her bf. He might love her too. Maybe not as much as you do but he might and she might love him back. YOu shouldn't really go messing around with someone else's girl like that because it can cause serious problems. He might need her more than you do. Everybody makes mistakes don't worry about it.