I've been talking to this one girl on the internet for a combined 80 hours(that's for about hmm 12 days) and we've done something once just as friends(I went over to her house and we talked for 5 hours). I was talking to her tonight and I noticed her name related to her having trouble with her boyfriend. When I asked her what's up with your name she told me she doesn't want to talk about it. She has talked to me before about troubles with her boyfriend and she didn't seem to have a problem with it but this time it's different for some reason. After she told me she didn't want to talk about it I finally realized what I was doing; I'm trying to destory something so perfect. Right when I realized this I told her I was going to go to bed and I wasn't feeling like myself. Then about 5 mins later I logged back on and said something was bothering me and I just couldn't put my finger on it...sry for not being so talkative; then I left and here I am. What should I do? Should I tell her what was bothering me? Note: I'm a junior in high school and she's a freshman. She's only about a year and 3 months younger than me.
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Need some serious advice right here.
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talk to her, if you tell her whats bothering you, she will tell you whats bothering her, she will know that you can truely talk to her openly, it might bring you closer together too. hope this helps, doesnt really make sense but hey! hehehe. take care
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Honesty is like a kiss on the lips.
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I know some people are going to say this is obvious, but are you trying to hook up with this girl?You two sound like you have a really good relationship and can communicate well. Don't start hiding things from her otherwise the time you spent talking to her won't mean diddly.
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Okay, I'll tell her tonight. I g2g to school now though but damn seriously we've had deep conversations before but this time it just seems different...I don't know maybe it's the hang over from 2 nights ago but I swear I was getting bad vibes last night even though she was cherful as always.