Two problems.. i am curious to know if any of you have any answers. The first thing is, i have been having this terrible pain right above my asshole (i am assuming it is my prostate). This pain occurs for 10-15 minutes.. builds to a point, peaks, then resides. I used to get it in the middle of the night, but now i get it occasionally after i masturbate. I once got it after i took a dump and that lasted for almost an hour. It bothers me because not only is it extremely painful but i doubt this is even close to being a normal event. Should i see a doctor and tell them about it?The other thing is that ive always been able to cum by masturbating, but never when a girl is giving me head.. for some reason it just doesnt feel as sensual as when im doing it myself. I dont think im getting bad head either.. im not really sure what it is but i get bored when im getting head, and the girl gives up from getting tired (and thinks its her fault which is not a good thing!) I havent had sex yet, but this is also bothering me... can anyone help?
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Anyone have these problems? i need help!!
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I think you should see a doctor about the pain.
As for the blow job problem, some guys just can't get off on it.
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yeah, as websexinfo said...some guys can't...it may be nerves too...sometimes your just too nervous...just relax...I dunno...just enjoy it...
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yeah go see a doctor.
i've only been blown twice,didnt cum either time.
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first off. yes go see a doctor if you havent already. that sounds like a serious problem.
but as forhte getting head thing it is a more common problem than you would think. i get bored when guy go down on me, it just doesnt feel that amazing you know? i wouldnt let it get to you at all though. just explain it to the girl you see.
but who knows, maybe someday it will change and you'll love it.