Ok, here's the deal. I'm a 39 year old married man and have noticed the slightly reddish bumps near the bottom of my penis. They really don't look like HPV or Herpes bumps according to pictures i've seen. They don't hurt or scab up and appear to be empty of fluid.
The problem is this. I have been unfaithful to my wife in the past but the last time was a little over three years ago. Could HPV, Herpes or something like that not appear for that long of a time. I suppose the bumps could have been there a bit and I haven't noticed but wouldn't a serious STD cause me other symptoms or discomfort? I have experienced none of those.
Any comments would be appreciated. I know cheating ws wrong and i've changed that character flaw.