This is interesting.We always get this intimate in places we're comfortable in, mine or her room.It hadnt occured to me that she might not be the relaxed one. Its more me who has had the relaxing problem before and one time when we tried a while ago I was so nevrous I couldnt get it up. I dont have that problem now though I think it still effects my hardness sometimes. I suppose I would need a totally hard cock to get it in right?Certainly no problem with her wet as she tends to be juicing as soon as I got my shirt off and she juices alot though I will certainly go buy myself some lube.As for coming before hand she is the only girl I have been with that I cant give an orgasm using my hands which I find a tad frustrating but I know everyones different.
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Tried to have sex, cant fit it in
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Yeah, I'd have to agree that she may need more time and foreplay and stuff to get ready for it. I agree, though, that sometimes when you first put a condom on yuo can loose a little of the rock-hard thing. I've switched to Magnums, which are a little wider and don't feel like they're pinching the base. Maybe your condoms are too small?
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Don't give up with just the hands, get in there with the tongue, young man...I always follow the rule:You've gotta lick it, before you stick it.
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Oh I do lick. What made you think otherwise? I do use my hands the as af of yet I havnt managed to give a girl an orgasm with my tongue yet.Well I have only licked out twice, the first time it made me wanna gag, the taste that is, it was overpowering. How do you learn to put up with it?
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get her beforehand buzzed
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She was really really wet before I got to her pussy just from making out.
Anyway I tried mastabating with a condom and I think I have a better feel for it now and I dont think it will be a turn off anymore, especially now I have just bought some easy-fit ones that are alot more comfortable.
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Sounds like she might have hygiene issues if the taste/smell is that bad.
A clean pussy has a very distinct, but by no means bad, smell/ taste.
If it's something you just can't handle, try getting her to take a shower and really scrub up on that area, probably won't be nearly as bad.
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I'm not sure how I could say that nicely
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Offer to shower with her, it's a nice pleasant time together, and the effect of the warm water and naked wet bodies together is quite nice.
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I agree with others comments. She is really nervous and afraid it's going to hurt and is not relaxed. You are apprehensive as well about not being to penetrate. I would suggest that you try a little wine and allow her to get on top of you. Don't rush into anything. Take it slow and easy and lots of foreplay and lubrication.