Prom dillemma

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so how do guys honestly feel about a girl asking them to prom? i don't want to feel pathetic, or as if i'm backing this guy in a corner, but i doubt he will ask, and it is not because he wouldn't want to, but he just isn't into the whole prom thing. what should i do, ask him or wait?

Ask him how he'd feel if you asked him to the prom. Would he consider going if you asked? That way you're killlin 2 birds, well, you know.

I was asked to my prom, it didnt bother me at all

thanks u guys, i guess i'm just a bit terrified of getting rejected.

dont every be afraid of rejection. Guys find it hot when a girls confident, just like how it works the other way around. Have faith in yourself and just go for what you want

i don't know if i have the guts. what should i say?

I am sooo glad we don't have proms over here, the pressure of it all would drive some kids to drink n drugs LOLOf course you can do it, and i reckon "Fancy coming to the prom with me" Would kinda get a yes or no answer good luck

Now you know how guys feel when their asking out a girl? Btw, when is your prom? Ours was last saturday.. I thought that was one of the later ones.And about asking him... just go up and ask him something as simple as "do yuo wanna go to the prom with me?" (don't say that, but I'm not very good at thigns to say like that so don't listen to me on that). My point is though it doesn't have to be fancy or anything just ask him in some way. The way you ask shouldn't really matter, bceause if he wants to go with you he'll say yes no matter what way you ask it, unless of course you say something like "hey man you ARE going to go to prom with me, see ya there" :P

yeah i definently now know how nerve racking it must feel for boys. my prom is in 2 weeks.
i've yet to ask him.
i'm not confident enough

i guess i don't have to ask him anymore.....................

because he asked me. either way it worked out. but i do appreciate everyone's input it really helped me, thanks.

Congrats! I hope you have a blast!I remember when I asked my date to prom... I was so nervous because I was afraid he'd say no. I ended up cornering him and just bombarding him with mindless chatter and then slipping in "would you go to prom with me" while I was holding a onesided conversation lol I was so nervouse I didn't stop talking until it finally dawned on me that he said yes (about five minutes after he said it) lol But it ended up being one of the most fun nights I've had ^_^ I hope yours is awsome!

YAY, hope you both have a fantastic time