Okay people here are PHOTOS of me, 'Ugly Minger'

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Shallow Minger is looking for a young, pretty girl to sleep with. If he thinks you're as attractive as you do, you are just what he's looking for. You are also deeply concerned with looks.Contast what you said with what metrica_chris said. He is not shallow, at least in this facet of his life.

"Shallow Minger is looking for a young, pretty girl to sleep with."I have to agree. But its generalization. As far as I understand he is a virgin right?So I dont expect him to understand that sex which is emotionally involved, doesnt ask if the girl is 18 year old blonde or not.But yeah, now re-reading Mingers replies and sayings in here, I think he needs to be more worried about his personality than looks.I dont really feel Ive got anything else to say in this thread, and I think the long minutes I spent on those couple replies Ive posted here, werent really worthy since Minger, in his ignorance, just doesnt seem to care because he just doesnt understand."Shallow Minger is looking for a young, pretty girl to sleep with."And I have to repeat, I agree with that..Chris out..

In reply to:I think the long minutes I spent on those couple replies Ive posted here, werent really worthy since Minger, in his ignorance, just doesnt seem to care because he just doesnt understand.A lot of people besides the original poster read this stuff. It wasn't a waste of your time. A lot of insecure males might benefit from what you said.

In reply to:Bottom line: Ugly Minger is just as shallow as I am.Jeeez, isn't that what I said? If you are as shallow as he is, then he is as shallow as you are.And shallowness isn't always intentional. It's completely possible that you can't help it.Do you think metrica_chris's postings made sense, or were they just fanciful foolishness?

In reply to: A lot of people besides the original poster read this stuff. It wasn't a waste of your time. A lot of insecure males might benefit from what you said. Yes I hope so too. However, for me every person and situation is different. Ive already done this mistake once here, by starting generalizing things.As for people being shallow or not, dont really know what to say. I know some shallow people, but I kinda consider shallow differently than what Minger is. Hard to explain so I wont try.

In reply to:I know I'm a beautiful woman and I don't need anyone else to tell me otherwise. He's ugly and his attitude isn't helping him.Ohhh. Listen to you. So let me ask you, IF you were single and looking for a partner, and IF I had this great personality, would you consider a relationship/date with good old me?if not, WHY NOT? You see what's the point of putting on a fake smile just for people like you? It's not as if I'm gonna get it with people like you am I. Jeez.

In reply to:Even if you had a good personality and you still lacked self-confidence, I still would turn you down.What about if I had both? Come on Miss Shallow, answer that.

UM, you lack self-confidence, but you get angry and aggressive when someone agrees with your perception of yourself. It's not a good combination - but you can change. Not quickly, but slowly you can improve your self-confidence.

In reply to:Honestly? No, I wouldn't. Why? Because you aren't my type, to be blunt.oh this is funny now. "you aren't my type". I'm sure there's another meaning for that........ SO, what is your type then? Come on, tell us.

In reply to:Not quickly, but slowly you can improve your self-confidence. For whom exactly?

For yourself.

And what good will that do?

You'd be surprised what a little self-confidence can do for you...

...call me

no1sexpotinusa. Wow, and theres you saying you werent shallow earlier on. I notice you have the looks requirement right at the top of your checklist. I wonder what that means.

Guy...just let it go. If you talk to girls the way you talk on these boards, it's no wonder you might be having issues. Would you really go up to a girl and say, "hi, are you shallow?" Just let it go. There's someone for everyone, dude. Just stop wallowing in self pity and get your ass out there and just start approaching girls. The worse thing they can say is no...But I doubt any girl will say no, you're too ugly for me, sorry. If they do, FUCK EM!

You've become pretty annoying. Is really possible for anyone to be "ugly" and shallow? Youre just like every other guy in this world. You want the beautiful, trophy girlfriend. Youre just upset that THOSE girls wont give you the time of day. Do us all a favor and take this advicve: AIM LOW!!!

Actually, that (AIM LOW) is pretty good advice. But not low in terms of looks; low in terms of expecting to get laid right off the bat. You might want to think about cultivating a friendship with a woman, and forget about the sex part for now. Minger, it's like you're trying to run a sprint, and you can barely walk. You need to learn how to talk to a woman before worrying about getting laid.This "ugly" crap is just not plausible. I don't believe you.

I don't log on for two days and this is what happens...the same thing UM obviously doesn’t listen to the advice of those who are trying to help. I am starting to wonder if he wants to be helped. What it seems is that he secretly wants to be confirmed in his convictions but what it boils down to, as stated earlier, is that he gets angry with those who do agree with him. The truth to me is that I don't know if he will take the time to grow. When told that he can change and things can get better he didn't seem to care that it was for himself. UM, that is the problem. You don't give a damn about yourself in the emotional and probably the spiritual sense. On the outside that boils down to confidence but on the inside that can create shallowness or depression. The girls that matter can sense it miles away. You are alienating yourself from the people who care, especially if this is the way you are around your friends. If you truly want to succeed take time to reflect on these posts from those who are trying to help. And by time I don't mean the few minutes in reading the posts, I mean days, weeks, months, and maybe years. If you don't you will have nothing and lose what you do currently have. That is what I believe you are totally missing out on as of now.To no1-"And lastly, must be aware of what's going on in the world. Need to be able to have a decent conversation with him. "Is that lastly as in the last thing that matters? Either way, I don't know many people that have a clue as to whats going on in the world anyway. Good luck with that one.

In reply to:Do us all a favor and take this advicve: AIM LOW!!!Er, I never said in any post of my two topics that I aimed for the hot gitls only for christ's sake. You just think I do because I keep mentioning them!The fact is I don't, I try to go for the 'average' girls as it is, still no luck cause apparently I'm a 'freak' or their bitches of friends don't approve.