3 Basic Steps to Attract Any Girl!!!

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Personally I don't like cocky guys. This 'quiet flirt' sounds way more appealing. I hate guys always running off at the mouth. If a guy I didn't know that well started touching me, I'd feel he was coming on too strong and invading my personal space as others have said. To me it was seem like he's after one thing, if he gets too physical right away. I'd get rid of him quick.Advantages are taken, like taking advantage of someone? That's not a favorable tactic.I don't care what anybody says, I'll take the nice guy over the bad boy any day.Every woman has different qualities and find certain things attractive. If you keep this up, you won't even find the girl that would date a jerk like you.

Originally Posted By: AmzOriginally Posted By: JEDI-ALCHEMISTI'm sorry, what were you saying? I wasn"t listening.Was that meant to be funny or clever?? I don't quite understand your post.. Sorry, that would be my boyfriend being a smart ass again. No worries, I'll make sure he's spanked.

Why do people think being cocky is a good thing? Whatever happened to just being yourself???

What if you're naturally cocky?

I think the keep away technique is better known as playing, hard to get.I've talked about this with on of my good girl friends. You can be nice, but dont be afraid to make a move. An yes it can work if yo uuse ard to get, just dont use it to much, act kinda like your pissed off at her.I wouldn't use the word cocky, girls are attracted to a confident guy, someone who hols their head uo high, your more noticable this way, and people are more interested in you because of it.

lets see if i can break it down for you, i will take what you said, and then change it to be correct1. dating IS a game ... at least in high school.1. Dating is not a game, dont bother with strategies and shit, it dosnt work2. this is for people that don't want to settle down and get married and shit, this is simply for attraction2. this is for stupid people who live alone and are damn sure gonna die alone3. there is NO (maybe 1 outta 1000) girl that does not like to be touched. when a baby is born, and someone touches him/her, it soothes them. touching is wanted by instinct, people cannot control that.3. Girls are not all the same, some dont mind being touched, some hate it. you cant lop em all into a barrel. 4. AGAIN i'm am definatly NOT saying you should be someone ur not. i'm a strong believer in being yourself, but my point is to IMPROVE yourself.4. oh the hipocracy explain "being yourself is the biggest piece of bullshit..." your words not mine.5. the "keep away" isn't really ignoring the girl, but just not giving her attention as usual. this ONLY works if you've attracted the girl to a certain degree already.5. well, you've heard sevrel girls here say already that that DOESNT work. i dotn think that need more clarification.

why thank you, its nice to have girls tell them stupid meathead guy's that you dont have to be soem super smooth, cocky, perfect guy, to get the girl, you just have to be you.

Lol, you probably visit the sosuave forums.Ok, Kino is really helpful. Seriously, I have been uping it with sisters friends and they show alot more interest in me now I mean ALOT. I am naturally cocky and funny. Keep away I am bad at.People, you may be doubtful but this stuff works. Seriously. Give it a try for 2 months.

i have no idea what the sosuave forums are, and maybe it worked for you, but its still bad advice, I didnt have to use any of that crap to get my girlfriend, and she likes me for me, not for some false image of myself that I've created for her.

Arnt you the little asian kid that used to make topics if he is hot or not all the time? ya i dont think i wanna listen to your advice.

Whats the point of the personal attack? Whats wrong with just saying "No, I don't believe this is sound advice."

I was talking to the person who made the thread lol. About so suave.

This stuff has to be taken lightly. I agree. In my experience its good advice ( It has helped me). but dont make a false image of yourself.

Are you talking to bob or apocalypse? You've lost me. Please reply to the person your addressing.

Seriously man, women aren't just tools you can manipulate into doing things to/for you. A lot of your "three step" thing seem off the wall to me. I was never like that with my girlfriend before we went out, and we're completely devoted to eachother now...? Anyways, I'm not calling you stupid or a womaniser, i just don't really aggree with your methods.

I was adressing the person who started the thread. Sorry for the confusion lol.

I started reading this post but i cut out most of it because it was getting rather argueie :open_mouth:

The concepts of being cocky and funny and being touchy (kino) i wouldnt consider techniques but natural flirty behavour.

Cocky and Funny people in my experiance tend to be popular with women, they are fun to be around, i imagine most women would prefer someone that entertains them over someone who just bangs on about god/politics/work etc.

Kino, touching, whatever is something a lot people do naturally. People naturally touch people they are interested in be it as friends or more, its a way of getting close to someone. I think that the issue is that many societies dont touch enough.

French, Italian, Spanish are compaired to English, American people are more physical with oneanother. I think people in the most part like to be touched in a friendly way, not in the wondering hands sense though.

Ultimately everyone is different, so there is no right or wrong way to act, different people react differently to different things but i do apreciate what the poster is saying but it is clearly off a seduction website :smile:

i think that cocky and funny is a must and not being too keen is a great technique but the whole touching is a bit dodgy i find cos it can be interpreted in so many bad ways including being camp or sleazy which aint good. cocky and funny alone can be enough in my experience.

I feel the same way ^^. I thought I was the only one, but whenever I hear cocky the first thing I do is throw up in my mouth. Eww, I hate cocky boys theyre obnoxious, loud annoying and full of themselves. If I guy behaved like that to me, I would just be thinking back off. The guys I go after are the ones I can never get, sadly. But theyre never cocky it would give me an impression theyre more into themselves than me. You know, confidence is one thing, but being cocky is just annoying.

This thread is really old

I think you're all being slighty harsh.This guy obviously thinks this method works for him, if it does, wow go him! He's obviously not looking for a long term relationship anyhow, because to have a girlfriend, you can't just 'improve' yourself and change for the better. The real you will start to come out.And about the keeping away thing.I think if it's done in the right way, it can work.But it is a game, no one does that naturally.If a guy acted all interested in me, and then suddenly stopped, I would want to try and find out why...Thus making me go and start talking to him. And the whole "nice guys" get the girl thing. Really isn't true. Not where I live in any case. It really just depends. Stupid girls get with stupid guys and nice girls get with nice guys, with my experiences.