What should I tell her?

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Why does she spend the night?

She says she is afraid of her dad.That and I said I would protect her from him. I know where my dad's gun is.

Well, her dad sounds abusive, possibley sexually. She might already know what it is, or her dad has got some messed up thoughts in her head.Stop what you're doing, she doesn't need to hear about it from you, not yet. I'm not saying leave her alone completely, but a 14 year old should not be doing ANYTHING with a 9 year old. Be a friend, nothing more. Obviously she feels safe with you, what you are doing is taking advantage of her.Oh, and you know where your dad's gun is? What are you going to do, shoot her dad? Would you actually be able to do that?

The safety is on so all I have to do is scare him. I am her friend, but she really likes me. Seriously I love her and she loves me. What is wrong with it?

What should I tell her to do? It seems like we need to get somebody involved about this. If it shows the traits of an abusive relationship with her father.

I'm so sad now. I need to let some anger release with this blade.

Bad shit always happens with guns. Fact.Well, how about you put your "love" aside for a moment and look at the bigger picture. She is 9 years old!!! Do you think you're gonna get married some day? Spend the rest of your lives together? She seems to be an abused child looking for the love that she isn't getting at home, while you are a young hormonal teenager who thinks that he has found his one and only love. Its bullshit!The only way you can help her is to JUST be a friend, tell people who can help her. There is nothing you can do by yourself. Especially whipping a gun out, or worst, your dick.

You know, it's a felony to initimdate someone with a gun (unless they're in the process of committing a crime, and not even then in some locales, unless you're licensed to carry a gun). You think you can just wave a gun in his face and he'll be a good guy?

You seriously need to get an adult involved (Your parents? A teacher? Any adult that you trust?)

a 9 year old can love? I know ive always said you can always love, but i think this is a little outta line

Armagedon46, if you are being honest, then the situation requires adult involvement before you get into serious trouble. Talk to someone you trust.If, however, you are generating something fictional, stop it - that's not what this board is for.

Wait. Let me get this straight. You are 14 and she is 9? Dude you are 5 years older than her. You should be more of a brotherly friend to her than a boyfriend. That is just gross. YOu can't find a gf your age? She doesn't need to be in a relationship right now she is too young. And you can't tell her about your penis she isn't ready at least not ready to hear it from you. And the whole gun thing... that's taking it too far. You are risking alot there. You are exposing her too a gun and practically saying to her that you can kill her dad. Her daddy. The man who helped make her. You may say you're not gonna use it but she will say it to the next person she sees and that person may tell a cop and next thing you know you'll be riding in the back of a police car. You need to tell someone that her dad is abusing her, don't take it upon yourself to choose to "scare off" her dad.

i agree with smooches

How stupid can you be to believe him for even a second? The sheer amount of ignorance going on here drives me to tears. Not a single one of you has caught on that this is a joke yet? Where are the parents in all of this? Just hanging out in the next room while the nine year olds fuck? I apologize for having to call you idiots, but sheerly for the sake of not getting banned outright. You can't be this dumb.

You gotta admit, OneDamageNuke does have a point.

You may be right.> Where are the parents in all of this? Just hanging out in the next room while the nine year olds fuck? I apologize for having to call you idiots, but sheerly for the sake of not getting banned outright. You can't be this dumb. However, the alleged boy is allegedly 14. A lot of parents leave their kids to their own devices for a large part of the day. And no one said anything about fucking.It takes a lot more than calling everyone "stupid" to get banned here.

i call bullshit

It takes a lot more than calling everyone "stupid" to get banned here. I rest my case.

OneDamageNuke is right... i think more than half the "stories" on here are a bunch of lies

I think this is a big lie, in that case, go and search for some porn on Kazaa or something like that and leave this forum alone. This is serious.Now, if everything you said is true, then you have to stop whatever you are doing, and have a serious talk to your 9 years old girlfriend and find out what is happening with her father.If you think she is being abused by any chance, then go and talk to your parents about it, and see what they can do.She is too young to be your girlfriend, but still, if you care about her, you have to help her. there are more important things in this situation than try to explain what is that hard thing under your pants.

Poster: AmandaSubject: Re: What should I tell her? a 9 year old isn't old enough to be a girlfriendyea, what she said

jest show her ur dick thats what i would do

almost a year old its a dead thread mostl ikely he was a bullshitter but hes gones now and you well are stupid,if it was true hes 14 shes 9 its an entirely different mentality thus wrong